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Mon, 14-Feb-22 11:54 PM (2 years ago)
My girlfriend has 0 interest in sex but we are really happy together but the sexless part gets to me. Thetes no fix, she just doesn't want it any more... Advice?
You may need to seek outside help with your problem
(2 years ago)
lennynatural likes this
Saturn if someone doesn't want it, I'm not the type to have to persuade her... Her not wanting it is a mood killer before uve even started lol
(2 years ago)
ThePadrino likes this
If it's something you want and she's not into it, maybe it's time to move on.
(2 years ago)
Saturnfinger1 likes this
Padrino we have a kid and a happy life, just a sexless 1... I wudnt be leaving over that
(2 years ago)
imho lack of intimacy "could" hide a hidden problem, maybe between you two, maybe within her. I mean you shouldn't worry on the fact that you need it, but on the fact that she doesn't want it and why
(2 years ago)
MrsTrellis likes this
Sounds to me like she is suffering from postpartum (someone who knows correct if I'm wrong)
(2 years ago)
yeah SEB's right! if you look on internet is full of "accurate" sites that describe the lack and sometimes adversity to sex after having a baby, I can not even imagine how it feels after.
(2 years ago)
SexyEnglishBabe likes this
After the birth of my son I never lost my sex drive
(2 years ago)
SexyEnglishBabe likes this
Sorry Englishbabe I thought postpartum was depression, and Lap, when I say baby, I mean he's 7 now lol so probably not temporary
(2 years ago)
SexyEnglishBabe likes this
My bad...as I said, someone correct me if I'm wrong...I don't know the right lingo...but your child being born was definitely the trigger
(2 years ago)
It can't be easy for you, but I'm glad that you're both very happy together.
(2 years ago)
you need to at least take her to counsil and take it from there
(2 years ago)
Saturnfinger1 likes this
ok then I'll suggest you to consult an expert with her or without her if this is important for you. At least give it a try, you never know how dissatisfactions can develps in long terms
(2 years ago)
MrsTrellis likes this
A lil professional help would help! Sometimes it can be tough to think of yourself as anything but a mother.
(2 years ago)
so you dont wanna try to get to the bottom of the problem,,,after 7 years its not gonna "fix" itself, im confused since you asked for advice
(2 years ago)
what I'm saying is that if u come hereto talk about it, means it's important for u. don't underestimate lack of sex, is one of MANY pleasing bond that keep people together
(2 years ago)
if someone can give you a professional help, give it a try, even alone if you don't wanna force her
(2 years ago)
By all means, judge if you must..... but this is why I screw the neighbor......
(2 years ago)
louisvangaal6876 likes this
tugking made the point! if you're ok with it go on and accept it! if you're afraid of ending up screwing the neighbor go to a person who studied to solve this kind of problems!
(2 years ago)
louisvangaal6876 likes this
Ya, I was gonna say going to the neighbor chick was cheaper... but I'm a smart-ass like that....
(2 years ago)
louisvangaal6876 likes this
Not going to solve the issue here but I am wondering what the birth control situation is. Sterilization might be the answer if she is equating sex with kids and just has no desire to go there again
(2 years ago)
Laphroaigh likes this
pique. (it's OK, she'll never see it, she blocked me long ago.)
(2 years ago)
