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Thu, 3-Nov-16 4:33 PM (7 years ago)
Can men and women be just friends and never ever consider a sexual relationship with each other?
The percentage of guys that can conduct a plutonic relationship with the opposite sex is smaller than the guys that can't.
(7 years ago)
SunGod_dess likes this
Hi Lyn ... In my opinion it is totally possible and also great ... maintains a balance if you know what I mean.
(7 years ago)
SpicedPumpkin likes this
(they know my opinion about cheating, i think they'd never ask when in relationship)
(7 years ago)
SunGod_dess likes this
Yes of course. I have several female friends that I wouldn't consider a sexual relationship with. Some because I'm not physically attracted, and some because it could ruin a friendship.
(7 years ago)
If I were to be out at lunch with Goddess I'm not sure if I could keep my eyes off of her..... French fries....
(7 years ago)
I agree Copper ... friendships are far more important ... and valuable ... xxx
(7 years ago)
naughty_but_innocent likes this
Several of them are super gorgeous and we flirt outrageously, but given the chance to cross that line we've always stepped back out of mutual agreement. Real friends are in short supply. LOL
(7 years ago)
SunGod_dess likes this
<<< Gives Melon a slab on the butt ... Hi Melon ... just imagine that ... would be safer ... me at one table and you at your table ... also won't help ... lol
(7 years ago)
BlindMelon likes this
a slab? a slab of what? bacon? ribs? inquiring minds want to know. 
(7 years ago)
SunGod_dess likes this
Sorry I have to throw fries at you to get your attention, Goddess
(7 years ago)
you see what affect you guys have on me ... can't even spell ... lol
(7 years ago)
dirtycopper likes this
It's cool, Goddess. My name is actually spelled "Nelom" though
(7 years ago)
I'm lucky then Lyn ... when I wa single I had it a lot, but since I'm married it's not really a thing ... accept the guys on NN ... lol
(7 years ago)
Yes, I think it's possible. I several female friends that are attractive that I wouldn't have sex with. you just have to be strong willed if you find the other friend attractive.
(7 years ago)
this is the kind of debate I love on NN, SG, it's intriguing to hear perspectives and experiences........ and so you "considered" it, snapshot? I used that word deliberately 
(7 years ago)
SunGod_dess likes this
But can't I have a male friend and flirt back and forth with intent of never having sex? I do it with female friends what's the difference? Just friends
(7 years ago)
BelleLugosi likes this
That's what I mean KC, we do exactly that. We know we would never cross that line (although it would probably be fun) so we tease, flirt back and forth, knowing it's safe to do so.
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
she can't Belle? Why not? I see your point KC but I was raising the notion after a previous status was kind of fudged and making the point that its rare for sex never to raise its ugly head ,lol.
(7 years ago)
I was kidding. Saying that the guy will aways entertain the possibility. I'm just used to clacking my wedding ring finger against the bar top to make a point, I guess.
(7 years ago)
Oh I agree... Don't think my personality can go 5 Min's without a sexual reference.. My friends know this lol
(7 years ago)
In the end you risk emotions for flirtatious fun, Copper ... it is a dangerous game ... "right place ... right time" ... is it worth the risk ...
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
Exactly KC. I've even had friends say something about it. I offered to watch myself around them and they said no, it made them feel good (compliments etc) but in a safe way. If that makes sense.
(7 years ago)
It's cool to be flirty as long as boundaries are clear.
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
exactly Belle. I can say "Damn girl, you look hot." and it's a compliment and they take it that way. But if I tried to get them in bed it would ruin the friendship so that line isn't crossed.
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
Not really. Some people need more um, UNSUBTLE ways of letting them know where the boundaries are.
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
My line anything that upsets my husband
(7 years ago)
exactly...especially if booze is present...
(7 years ago)
One of the reasons we stopped playing with couples, is each and every time, the husband would contact me for 1 on 1. Every time. Despite it being clear up front that it was strictly group play.
(7 years ago)
KC, if they're married, and a few are, I'm a bit more subtle. LOL And it depends on the husband, some of them are cool with it, some aren't so I respect that. Respect is the key actually. 
(7 years ago)
Belle, you must have been doing something right. 
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
Yeah, yeah. I fuck like a xxxxx. That's entirely beside the point. The point is, 99% of men think with their dicks. That 1% left over is awesome.
(7 years ago)
"A standing prick has no conscience "
(7 years ago)
It comes back to respect Belle. Respect for you, for your man, for the boundaries you set. Some people have no respect. Sad but true.
(7 years ago)
thats cos the guilty or insecure guy does not get hard in the first place, DC
(7 years ago)
BelleLugosi likes this
Nothing like a limp play date. That's when I used to gently suggest soft swap or rescheduling.
(7 years ago)
LOL lyn. I've had a few times where a female friend left me with blue balls, but I still didn't cross that line. Not all men are pricks, or think with theirs.
(7 years ago)
DC, you sound like the 1% belle was discussing earlier...
(7 years ago)
Knockout_curves likes this
I'll take that as a compliment lyn. Thanks. 
(7 years ago)
And it can happen while you're married. Goodnight all.
(7 years ago)
Jagged_Edges likes this
