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	Catastrophic

Mon, 1-Dec-14 3:44 AM (9 years ago)

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Does anyone believe that there are justifiable reasons for cheating?

	rockhard6isback

depends on who the person is.

(9 years ago)

	MieleGattina

When I felt like cheating on my ex-husband, I left him. So, in my world, the answer is no. However, I will not judge those in different circumstances.

(9 years ago)

	rockhard6isback

great point MG, I was kinda alluding to that. Some can't see justification if they get cheated on but they can justify it if they are the ones who cheat

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

No! I have seen way to much of what happens when people do cheat. And I am talking personally within my family and friends.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

One of my good friends got AIDS because he hubby cheated. Another friends hubby got a woman pregnant. I could go on, but you get my drift.

(9 years ago)

	Ilikeorange

Those who cheat need to be ready to face the consequences that come from such behavior. I agree with Miele.

(9 years ago)

	KnkyNYCouple

There are no justifiable reasons for it. Talk it out or walk away from it all

(9 years ago)

	Catastrophic

I tend to agree more with TWL, but I don't others since I don't truly know their circumstances.

(9 years ago)

	Catastrophic

judge others*

(9 years ago)

	MieleGattina

I just never understood why anyone would cheat on their partner...just leave. I did, and it was not easy, but I'm in a better place and so is he.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

I met a man yrs ago whose wife had dementia & he had chances given to him to have sex with other women. He never wandered, even when she didn't know. He was my training officer.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Why would anybody want to hurt the person you are with? We all bleed. Leave the relationship, then it would not be cheating.

(9 years ago)

	Catastrophic

I just found out my bf was cheating and I cannot explain how bad it feels.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

Cat, I am so sorry. It's a heart crushing blow.

(9 years ago)

	MrCoverYou

Email.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Hey Cat, is he worth staying with? I am a guy asking you.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

Worth staying with? If a boyfriend cheats, more than likely he will cheat when married.

(9 years ago)

	MieleGattina

*hugs* I'm so sorry

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

tight is right on, It is true. Do not get yourself into that. Get out. I am a guy guy telling you this.

(9 years ago)

	happyhumper69

No need to explain Cat. Some of us know that feeling first hand. I learned from her that there were better people out there....and I went and found one.

(9 years ago)

	Ilikeorange

I've been there. It's a total blow to heart and mind.

(9 years ago)

	Catastrophic

Yeah, I'm honestly fucked. Completely crushed.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Hey Cat, you are not fucked, get your self out of that situation, if you don't then you fucked yourself. This is coming from a guy.

(9 years ago)

	Catastrophic

I dumped him on the spot. However, I am weak to his begging and pleading.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

Male or female. The cheater needs to take responsibility for taking another persons trust and throwing it in the trash. I will not waiver from this thought. I've made this known on NN since joining

(9 years ago)

	guitartxn

Cat I have been there and it right and truly sucks. I am sorry to hear of this and know that There are many here who can offer a shoulder for you...myself included.*HUGS*

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

Cat, it takes a stronger person to walk away from a cheater than it is to stay with one. But only you can make that decision. You are the one in control. I wish you well, Sis.

(9 years ago)

	Catastrophic

His reasoning is what messes with my head. Apparently I treated him too well so he took advantage of me???? like wtf

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

Aaaaaaaaaaah the ole "I will see how much I can get away with' excuse. Yup, it's a good one alright.

(9 years ago)

	wantedpussie

I know a few females like that when they get treated well I don't get that one myself

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

What made my sister shudder with disgust is that she would remember kissing her hubs when he got home and then realized that his tongue was on another woman's pussy before he kissed her.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

She would vomit each time.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

Well, Big. There is more to cheating than the psychological. There is a physical reaction too.

(9 years ago)

	MrCoverYou

Seriously, Tight ... enough already FFS.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Hey Cat, do you live with the guy. To all the women here. Do not ever give yourself up like that. This is what a lot of guys do, they control you. I AM A GUY TELLING YOU.

(9 years ago)

	Mr.Fin

I am very sorry for that *tight hugs*

(9 years ago)

	Ilikeorange

His loss. I wish you the best.

(9 years ago)

	txsweetie

There is no excuse to cheat. if you arent happy, leave. Cheating is not going to make it better.. I've been cheated on before and I forgave them. stupidest thing ive ever done.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

You sound like a fine man, tnt.

(9 years ago)

	txsweetie

Me forgiving him only made it worse. He turned around and did it again because he thought he could get away with it. He thought i would keep forgiving him. I just had to walk away. much happier now!

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Hey tight, thanks for the the nice response, but I thunk women need to start looking at things. women fall for assholes. He is an ass for doing that to the girl he holds in his arms.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

You are so welcome!

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

On another note, Cat.... Were all here to give you great big hugs.

(9 years ago)

	TenderMoments

It's not aw

(9 years ago)

	TenderMoments

It's not always easy to just walk away. That's all I have to say about it.

(9 years ago)

	MieleGattina

It is never easy to walk away...I lost everything when I did it.

(9 years ago)

	Raven2005

I eel I'm cheated all the time.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

I know you may luv the guy, but use his ass. stay as long as you can and get you place under neath his nose. Fuck him like he fucked her, but you will have something that will be more than a night.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Time to grow and learn on this. How do I know? I cheated and I regret it all. My wife is still married to me after 34 years. I hurt so many people and it took me so many years to gain respect

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

Am I a hipocrit? yes I am, But I learned from this and I had to get my lady back and that took a while, but it was worth it. I was cheated on myself before her and it sucks.

(9 years ago)

	tight_wet_lips

WOW! tnt, that is brave of you to let it all out.

(9 years ago)

	TenderMoments

I have a lot more to lose than that...I'm just glad I have my own house.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

I forgot to mention that I cheated, I was 20 years old, but that was just selfishness on my part. I didn't really care about the girl, but she was so popular at the time. Why would she look at me.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

I look in the mirror every morning and I have accepted what I look like, and I am no bodies bargain, but my wife thinks I am the guy, Bless her, and why did I do that. cat, make him work for it.

(9 years ago)

	tntbrat

One more thing, Dammit girl, do not give it up to him in the bed if you stay a bit. Don't do it. We all bleed the same why and we are no different like guys seem to think we are. NO WAY!

(9 years ago)

	isme2

wow,am surprised an impressed with the answers and dialogue here. Am glad to see the conviction about not cheating. Agree, why be married if gonna cheat.

(9 years ago)

	rubnserved

wow,no typo's

(9 years ago)

	isme2

rub u making fun of me

(9 years ago)

	isme2

that's a serious status

(9 years ago)

	DubbleStrubble

It really does depend on the relationship, there is no black and white answer. If you think your relationship is solid, then discovering you've been cheated on is horrible.

(9 years ago)

	DubbleStrubble

Equally, if you're tempted to cheat, then your relationship is already over, you probably just don't know it yet.

(9 years ago)

	dziga

Nope. Ass covering excuses, yes. Justifiable reasons? No. Sorry to hear the pain...

(9 years ago)

	dziga

As others say, cheating is a straw that usually breaks the camels back, not the only straw on its back. Cheating necessarily includes self centeredness, lack of respect and communication problems

(9 years ago)

	dziga

It is a simple question that is hard to face: Do you want to be with someone whose character leaves space for that and finds it justifiable? Hugs to you, Cat...

(9 years ago)