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Saturday, April 9, 2022, 11:48:34 AM- Still frustrated

Well, went and browsed my blogs from last year and we had a grand total of 17 intimate 'events' so not always fucking, maybe a HJ or something a few times. While this is more than the previous years, it is nowhere near what I want. She continues to make promises of more and I spend money on things that are supposed to help increase things (with her involved in the decisions) but nothing. Her mom leaves tomorrow and it is safe to say that we will be having another 'Discussion' soon.
So far this year, we have been intimate 5 times in 4 months. It really is BS.
The Ex is still dealing with Cancer treatments and is tired and our kids are stressing her out as well so we have not had any intimacy although she says she would like to. One of my concerns on that is I have read that I could be affected by her medications via 'liquid transfer' so I am a bit apprehensive about it anyway.
Anyway, I hope everyone has a a great Easter!

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Monday, March 21, 2022, 11:07:57 AM- A third time

In the space of 2 weeks we have fucked 3 times now. The main problem is that I am not sure if she is just 'going along' with what I am doing or if she really wants it. She definitely is 'involved' in the action in that she is playing with me and blowing me and she does cum - usually twice or more from what I can tell - but me being the initiator leads to me mentally questioning things. Last night, we setup at a new campsite and had dinner with an old friend. After dinner the MIL went to her cabin and we sat and talked with friend for a bit before she headed home. The Wife went inside and for reasons unknown to me sat at the dinette to watch tv instead of the sofa or easy chair. After sitting with her at the dinette for a while with her playing a game on her phone, I pointed out it would be more comfortable to sit on the sofa and cuddle so she moves there (still dressed in her traveling clothes) still playing her game. I got into my shorts and t shirt that I wear before going to bed and she keeps playing the game. After a bit, I point out that her playing a game is not what I had in mind so she does go and get 'comfortable' and I pull a blanket over us as it was getting cold. End result was after a bit, we went to bed and did fool around which ended up with us fucking. It was sort of 'ok'. I guess after all these years of virtually no sex and getting turned down constantly, I am glad for something, but .........

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Wednesday, March 16, 2022, 11:26:21 AM- A bit of a surprise

Well, 2 nights in a week .... WOW. I really wanted to eat her, but she has not showered for 3 or 4 days and while I like some 'musk' I was not ready for that so I fingered her and sucked on her tits while she gave me a BJ and HJ - basically we played with each other for about 20 - 30 minutes before I was worked up so much that either I fuck her or I cum on the sheets, well, I took the less messy option and fucked her till we both came, pretty much at the same time.
It was good, but I am never sure if she is just giving in or really wants to fuck. I am curious what the balance of the vacation will have in store.

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Monday, March 14, 2022, 11:33:46 AM- Week 2 of vacation

Well, The Wife and I are finally sleeping alone in our camper (we shared a hotel room with MIL for the past week) and we did fuck last night. It was a pretty decent time, she sucked me, I ate her to what appeared to be one orgasm and then fucked her til I came and I think she came again as well - sometimes hard to tell. To be fair, we were both tired from a day of driving and I am hoping for more and more creative activity as the week progresses.

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Friday, March 4, 2022, 9:51:44 PM- a conversation with The Ex

We were talking today and she emphasized that she really wants to get together to in her words 'have sex' I really like that she is not calling it making love, because it indicates that she accepts it for what it is - SEX. The only problem is that with the Cancer treatments and a few other medical issues, it is currently off limits. My birthday is mid April and she wants us to get together for sex for my Birthday so that is something to look forward to.

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Friday, March 4, 2022, 11:39:37 AM- Heading out for vacation

The wife and her mom and I are headed out for a camping vacation in Florida for a few weeks. For the first week we will be sharing a room, so certainly no sex then. Following that, we will have a cabin for MIL and Wife and I will be in our camper. It should be a nice vacation, but The Wife revealed a disturbing fact to me a few nights ago - I do not think she meant to say what she said - Anyway .... In my efforts to improve our bedroom I have purchased a few new things, one is a box of suggestions that you randomly pull from and must do, they range from kissing to anal (I wounder how that will go over?) the other is a book called cookie sutra which is basically a condensed version of the KamaSutra but with the positions demonstrated by gingerbread cookies. Well, a few afternoons ago I was frantically searching for keys and left the book on the bed but put it away before we went to bed. Wife said she was disappointed as she was hoping to go thru the book with me so the next evening I made sure I was fairly rested and awake and left the book on the bed. She came to bed and we were talking and she said (this is where it gets interesting) she had made extra effort to be awake and had been sure not to drink wine since she sometimes does that to avoid sex - not those exact words, but that was the meaning - she went on to tease me a bit then said she was too tired but I could fuck her to get relief. Uh, NO, I do not want that kind of sex. That was Wednesday night and now it is Friday morning and I am frustrated and a bit pissed off. She is 'teasing' that when we are alone in the trailer on vacation, things may get kinky, but I have very little hope. I will update as possible.

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Friday, February 18, 2022, 12:33:43 PM- Wednesday night

Tuesday evening I was really tired and found myself falling asleep on the sofa so decided to tell the Wife that I am going to bed early sort of hoping that she might follow but she did not, instead staying up to watch the Olympics and the shit show that is the Russian figure skating. When we were talking the next day I pointed out that what she was watching was pointless and that I had hoped for her to follow me and she apologized but I did not put much weight in the apology. Wednesday we went to bed at our usual time after watching the late news. I was not expecting any sexual activity as it has been under a month and we have a house guest (we average every 6 weeks - sometimes longer. Well .... She starts playing with my dick and goes to suck me and, well, off to the races we go. She sucked on me for a while, I sucked on her tits and pussy for a bit and then we fucked I am not sure if it was a guilt fuck and sort of feel it may have been, and it was not the best sex we have had, but it is sex. How sad is that statement.

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Friday, February 11, 2022, 11:44:43 AM- Anniversary

Our anniversary was this past weekend and, no surprise, no sex. She did promise that she would do a sexy dance for me again (even though she said she felt silly the last time) but somehow she seems too tired every evening. He mother is coming to stay with us for about 2 months starting tonight (I adore her mom) so I sort of assume that will mean 2 more months without sex. We will see, part of the time she is here will be a few weeks camping in Florida so perhaps when her mom is not sleeping in the camper with us there will be some opportunities. Oh, well.
The Ex is still fighting Cancer and a few other health issues but has expressed that if given the opportunity she would like to hook up again - that really is a mixed bag for me, as good as it is to fuck her, I truly wish she would find a partner to stay with and not rely on me as much as she does.

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"Sorry to hear. I can understand both the sexual frustrations you have as well as the issue with the ex. My ex wife (recently divorced and still under the same roof) has tried to get me to have sex with her. There have been times when I eagerly complied, but I've found that every time I do things seem to be worse the next day. I know I'm not going to be able to get sex anywhere else, without paying for it, so it's a win-lose situation for me. I hope for the best for you."

- Saturnfinger1

Friday, January 28, 2022, 11:28:04 AM- Thursday night

Well, last night (Thursday night) after my surgeon gave me permission to take off my brace, we went out for a nice dinner and cane back to the hotel to watch tv for a bit. I was worn out and fell asleep on the sofa so we went to bed early. The Wife came out of the bathroom and surprised me with a little bit of a dance as she slipped off her 'night shirt' I was surprised to find that she was wearing a new Teddy. We ended up playing for over an hour - she had what I believe to be 3 orgasms and she sucked on my dick for quite a while. Since my right arm is still not working quite right, the positions were a bit odd, but I fingered her while she used her vibrator and although it was not a comfortable position for me, I did manage to eat her for a while. We finished up with a good fuck (x2) where we both came.
All in all, a pretty good way to finish off the week. The big question now, is if this will be repeated on a regular basis more often than once every 4 - 6 weeks.
Time will tell.

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Wednesday, January 26, 2022, 11:01:01 AM- Followup with my Dr.

I am headed back to Atlanta for my 6 week followup on the shoulder surgery and he is supposed to let me take the shoulder brace off at this point - I am tired of it - and hopefully that will make The Wife willing to have sex again but who knows. We had another 'talk' about the lack of activity and she agreed that it needs to change so I purchased a book and a few other things to try to spice it up and create reminders. She continues to 'Tease' the things that she will do, but as in the past finds a way to avoid them when the time comes. As much as I intended for January of 2022 to be the sort of jumping off point if things did not change, we have both had our medical issues over the past few months so I am trying to be understanding. That being said, we are almost past that point and she really will have no more excuses within the next few months.

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