Sexy salutations fellow naughty NNers!

*pours a sailor Jerry's and ginger beer*

Today I thought I thought I'd write a few lines about this wonderful community and what Mr and I have learnt about being good citizens of NN- also what I expect from visitors to my little slice of NN.

*drops an ice cube into the aforementioned drink*

For me, NN is about people's interaction fuelled by a common interest in erotic pics and videos and stories. I get to live out an escape in a safe environment with my Mr and supportive friends.

I signed up for the pics and comments but the community- that hooked me and that drives my logging in everyday- even if just for a jog through status land or to read a message.

*sits down, gestures for you to do the same*

The key to me is to treat people as people. Be respectful until you know people well enough to know if they want you to be otherwise -I delete all overly sexual aggressive messages and block based on the content. I don't want a rant-based reference to my bits from a stranger, to be honest. I'm much more interested in sexy slow build friendships that have trust and harmony.

It's not to say that I don't like dirty chat or naughty interactions- I do - but that is something we find the right people for and we only get to that through a friendship based on respect.

So with all that in mind - live in NN. Go explore it. Spend sometime in status and comment in a few. Support those who need it, laugh at the funnies, tease the bizarre ones (but only a bit) and find the kindred spirits there. Go roaming in pics, find your favs, remember to comment and like and remember that someone is reading what you write. Be genuine and supportive - if you don't like a pic, just move on. If you find something that is wrong (against the NN rules) hit the report button. Try and remember to thank people who are good to you. Always welcome a new person if you see them.

Don't send random pics of your cock to me. Don't. You might be impressed but to me it's the same as when the cat brings in a mouse for me. - I see how pleased you are with it but it's going straight in the bin. If it has no context to me - I'm not interested. Just so we're clear DON'T SEND ME RANDOM PICS OF YOUR COCK.

Don't tell me how you would employ me in any domestic fashion. I had a message telling me how a guy would employ me to feed him snacks while dressed sexy. If that is the power of your imagination you are too dull for us to be friends.

Don't offer me money - if I accept beware you've just paid for your own Hitman. It's unbelievably insulting. I have a feeling if you think that is a good message to send you won't be reading this blog anyways.

Don't even hint at replacing my Mr. At best you'll be blocked and ignored. If you don't get why it's a problem- go read my 3rd blog post. At worst, you'll think it's all going swimmingly before you walk into a hotel room with my Mr waiting for you.

Do like - Do comment - Do PM - Do support posters you like- do ask people who else they like- do premium if you can - definitely verify. Always verify.

Oh - and sun screen- always use sunscreen

Kisses, kink and ink

Mrs PB xxxx

Forgive the lack of usual hostess service - just grab a seat, cos I am mad.

I encountered someone who has made my blood boil and I don't think it's all that isolated a thing so I've decided to allow myself a rant.

This may not be as pretty as I'd like as the points are rushing through my head like ants to a dropped ice cream.

Don't insult someone's partner and act like you are not insulting them too. (Unless that's their kink, some people are...different). Don't imagine for a second I want any message from anyone about "dropping my husband for a real man". Let that sentence sink in for a second, I'll wait.

I'm real restricted in what I say about Mr because real life - but we have been together 15 years this year (married 10 shortly) and I love him completely. Not really sure what this mythical "real man" is but my man, is my everything and I wouldn't change him for the world (though when you read this - do. Some. Washing. Up.)

In what world does someone expect a positive response to this? There is a side issue of this person not having any real pics up but let's not get into that, it'd make me equally seething if they were a prolific poster of amazing pics.

This message made reference to my eyes and smile - I'm glad he noticed them- that look- that impish sexy smile and intensity in my eyes. It isn't for you - it's for him. It's not even into a camera - it's at him. (I know I just wrote my own review and arrogance blah blah but I'm mad).

Like last time blog post (you didn't read it...really? Ok well, later then) you have to remember the context of the people you perv on. They are people.

Roars

Mrs PB X

Sexy Salutations fellow naughty nudes,


So, lately we have been posting some interesting more BDSM themed pics. (Yaaay) this sort of power play i find extremely sexy and is one of my top play types. Restraint, teasing, power - even taking pics during it has a special glow.

I got a PM about one of these pics and it didn't sit right with me. There was an attitude that made me think and need to put some words out there about this.

The games we play are consensual. I feel adored, treasured, and (super important) respected. I am having fun in a position i want to be in (with a safeword and limits) The image you see is just that. An image. A costume, a mask, a character. (A superhero of sex? - back on point).

Our games, are well...fun and games. Mr isn't hurting me, has no desire to cause me any (real) pain. We are playing roles and having fun - in a context. The hand at my throat that night is the same hand i held last night looking at stars, the same one that i squeezed when we brought life into the world, the same one i held when we stood at the altar.

So to recap - i heart bondage - Mr hearts me - play safe people

Kisses, kink & ink

Mrs PB xxxxxxxxx

Hi fellow NN addict!

We've been having some really nice conversations about photography on here recently and even been asked for a pointer or two. Whilst we are not experts it did get us thinking about how we do....what we do. So here is some rambling about that.

1. Event sex. We love to make an occasion of it. Most of our pics come about when I get a new outfit on for the first time. It's exciting for us and that leads to lots of passion for pics. A new outfit has new patterns/features etc and encourages alot if searching for the best poses/situations. It really fuels us. Same is true of of new toys.

2. Volume. The more raw pics you have the more likely you have one you like enough to share with NN. We snap lot's more than we need and then narrow them down. Mr does the majority of the snapping and I edit them.

3. Editing. It's always worth having a look at the edit settings on a pic and a play. Even phones these days have a lot of options and a filter or amendment can make something so so into something super sexy.

4. Respect. It's the biggest one for us. I know the man taking my pics respects me and doesn't want to take a pic that makes me look bad in any way. If an angle is unflattering he won't take it, even if it shows one aspect well- if it fails anywhere else it's out. Take care of each other, never end up looking like you don't want to be there, never ever be pressured.

5. Variety. Try new things, mix it up a bit. In this age of digital pics, capture your go to poses but then- play about, have fun. See what works. It's more fun then just pointing a phone at your junk and clicking it(trust me).

6. Passion. It's sexy. Don't be afraid to take pics of just you kissing, smiles, hugs, holding hands. That stuff is you. Yeah it might not get a million views but other couples in the same headspace will see a kindred spirit. If you don't post it- take and keep it.

7. This is for you. All of it is for you. Take every pic for you. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with or makes you unhappy. You only owe it to yourselves to do this. Now - point of order- sometimes pics for a certain friend of a certain fetish or what have you come up- that is fine providing it's in line with the first part of point 7.

Ok. That everything? Yes, i think that's it. Thanks for the friends who inspired this post ( you know who you are) and thanks for all the likes and love.

Kisses, kink & ink,

Mr & Mrs PB xxxxxXXXXXxxxxx