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Exploring the line between pleasure and pain

13-Apr-10 22:53

Does any else like to occasionally venture into this realm? I'm not talking about dungeon-type S&M, though if that's your thing and everyone is consenting, more power to you. I'm talking about the more playful kind of rough play as in a bite, spanking, squeeze of pinch that is almost too hard, but not quite. For example, the last time my wife and I were going at it, I asked her to bite down on my collar bone, hard, but not in a way that would make me bleed or anything. My orgasm was the most intense I can remember.

Hope this isn't too bizzare a thread. I wanted to try for an interesting topic, but I'd hate to be the guy who somehow manages to freak out people who frequent a sex forum.

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13-Apr-10 23:01

I know a couple of women that enjoy the "almost painful" experience.....pulling hair, biting and pinching nipples...but they also know when they want you to stop.

It's enjoyable but distracting, trying to stay below that threshold.

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13-Apr-10 23:52

Yeah, that can be LOTS of fun.....or so I've heard.

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14-Apr-10 00:13

/pinches HP

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14-Apr-10 00:37

Sometimes my husband spanks me while also fingering me or while I use a vibrator, and there is no doubt that the pain and pleasure mix in a strange way, the pain somehow enhancing the pleasure and the orgasm that follows. A good smack on the ass is sometimes the trigger that pushes me over the edge! And sometimes when my husband is thrusting into me me, I'll rake his back (fairly lightly of course) with my nails, causing him to thrust harder, and--he tells me--take more pleasure in the thrusting. Yes, the line between pleasure and pain is an obscure one.

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court69

14-Apr-10 03:50

Never liked pain at all, however do enjoy doing something not pleasureable to me, in exchange for there pleasure, its just hot.

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bustygal

14-Apr-10 04:30

I absolutely love to be spanked....hard! Hair pulling and biting can be an extreme turn on too

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14-Apr-10 05:21

SLLLLLAAAPPPPPP!

I think pain that's not malicious can get wrapped around the other mental stuff going on in the sack. Like anticipation, surprise, nuance, intensity, etc. Not to mention, for a lot of guys, some of the same fantasies about penetrating, laying claim, dominating (in a good way), etc. that lead to vigorousness.

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14-Apr-10 06:43

you can't beat a bit of biting &nipple pinching nothing to painfull just playing nice

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14-Apr-10 08:45

Mr MarriedCpl2010 here: "I bite"
Occasionally June will ask for a good smack on the ass during foreplay and has been known to bite back.
None of this is to harm the other, rather a pleasant diversion from the acceptable norm.

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bushofire

14-Apr-10 10:33

I thought it was the norm

I all ways play a bit rough, grab hard, nibble, bite, scratch, all complete with a thorough pounding (don't get me wrong, I do know both ways!

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The last person I slept with got in contact saying I was a bit of a wild one, never had anything like it before! Got me thinking maybe I should tone it down a bit, but at the time she certainly wasn't complaining!!

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bushofire

14-Apr-10 10:35

And it's not at all anything to do with the pain aspect, just getting caught in the moment y' know, when you HAVE to slap that ass, bite her lip, and all that good stuff

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14-Apr-10 10:48

For what ever reason I have started pinching my nipples. WOW!! Just not sure why my nipples have become such a turn on. Had a female coworker that liked them chewed / nibbled on. I guess we all go thru changes. I know as I have aged I want to enjoy and or try new and different things.

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14-Apr-10 16:12

We have one http://store.babeland.com/bdsm/pinwheel" target="_blank" class="forum-link">these. Used carefully, it's amazing. I love it - my wife, not so much.

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14-Apr-10 16:43

It's a fine line...If I want Hubby's cock to grow an extra inch, I'll bite his nipples hard during intercourse. I like to be distressed but not really into pain. I love giving BJ's while handcuffed behind my back. Fucked while tied face down on the bed. Above all if you lightly bite me on the inner thigh moments after I've cum....you will have to pull me off the ceiling.....

Lucy...

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14-Apr-10 22:24

Pain is a natural high.

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Fun red

14-Apr-10 22:34

Holy shit, Wilde. That must amazing! Wow.

I love it rough. I trust my husband completely. If anything, I wish he would be much harder on me. MUCH. Having my hair pulled. Being bitten very hard. My hips and ass squeezed tight. I love having my face pressed hard against a wall or floor while I am getting fucked from behind. I love being covered and dominated. My husband loves me and would never hurt me, and it is because of that knowledge that I am able to let go and allow him to do whatever he wants. I would love to be gagged and tied, but I don't think my man is game for it. We'll see.

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14-Apr-10 22:47

wow Fun Red - that is such a turn on.

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Bob_323

15-Apr-10 00:54

GF loves it when I gently suck on her nipple then nip it with my teeth. Not too hard. Also loves having her nipples pinched hard as she is cumming.

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bushofire

15-Apr-10 09:04

Hey FR have you told your hubby about all of that? I'm sure he'd obide, it may take awhile to get into the whole borderline abuse thing

but I'm sure he'll be able to manage it!

My first partner seems to like it exactly like you do, hence why now I just do all that roughish stuff naturally.... When we split up and occasinaly met up to fuck - everything got so much more intense too, she really would bite me seriously hard, so I'd do the same and pound her pussy like never before.... Hair pulled back whilst fucking her doggy, slapping her ass hard so it leaves big red marks, grabbing her thighs tight and slamming her against me, biting her neck as I push myself deeper into her, often hitting her cervix

She loved it! So did I...... I need a new fuckbuddy damn it!!

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Fun red

15-Apr-10 12:25

Bush, honey, my husband does do all of that, but I wish he would take it a bit further.

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chillin4u

15-Apr-10 12:36

Sometimes my wife will force my head down so hard on her tits that I have trouble getting my breath. Other times she'll get an evil giggle while saying over and over "fuck me harder, do you like that". It's a real turn on when she gets like that, usually I'll spank her ass while going at it doggy style and she ends up burying her head in a pillow or I'll get out one of her big vibes and slam her with it. I'd like her to buy some nipple clamps but she hasn't yet.

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VT_Couple

15-Apr-10 16:40

Lot's of good responses.

Though I notice I'm one of the few men who likes to be on the receiving end of rough play

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bushofire

15-Apr-10 18:02

I'm in desperate need of some rough stuff right about now!

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15-Apr-10 19:43

I do quite like it when it gets a bit rough. I like to be spanked or strapped, but have only ever had one partner who was also into that too. I did spank her on many occassions, which was a thrill to both of us - leading to some great sex!

Hopefully one day I'll get to try proper s&m.
I did also have a girlfriend who liked me to squeeze and pinch her nipples REALLY hard while we were fucking. I would squeeze them and she would keep asking me to do it harder!! Had she done the same thing to me I would have been on the ceiling!!

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16-Apr-10 06:38

We are not into Pain but,we find a good hard Spank/padder,Whip,Helps
Busty ,you have to come over lol
Hunt oxoxox

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bustygal

16-Apr-10 07:02

hehe what a tempting offer hunty

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jackbirdjay

17-Apr-10 10:21

I like a little pain. I'll 69 with wife me on top. I'll slide down tit fuck her she will use her 7 in vib on me spank me ass telling me I am so bad. BETWEEN THE VIB BUZZING IN AND OUT OF MY ASS AND HER SPANKING MY ASS CHEEKS i cum so much and hard. I also love her bitting my nipples to.

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VT_Couple

17-Apr-10 20:58

well, if you take a look at our pics, you can see the kinks I enjoy.

It's not quite as extreme as it looks.

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