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new vibrator? hard to cum...

10-Apr-06 07:51

I just bought the Paul & Paulina vibrator (Fun Factory) last weekend... My very first "ordinary" vibrator, I already had an anal vibrator...

http://www.pleasuremenow.com/browseproducts/Paul---Paulina-Fun-Factory-Vibrator.html

I used it last night, and to be honest I'm disappointed... I mean, nice texture, cool shape... It was "enjoyable" but nowhere near making me cum

At first I thought it was the vibrator, but this is supposed to be high quality stuff by all accounts... I was a bit depressed yesterday, apparently it is very hard to make me climax?

My first relationshipwas with a girl, and in the whole relationship (about one year) she only managed to make me climax twice or three times). In my second/current relationship (more than two years) my boyfriend has never succeeded in making me cum... And now this toy can't? The vibrations seem weak, even though it's supposedly a strong motor inside... And yet, I can make myself cum in a couple of minutes or just one minute, depending on my mood...

And when I come here, all the girls seem to cum "at the drop of a hat"

Anyone out there like me, or with some advice?

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Kpooh

10-Apr-06 12:38

Try just giving it a couple days & then using it again...if it dont work then, maybe try something stronger? How do you get off normally? Do you have a vibe/toy you normally use or just your hands?

I can usually make myself cum in just a couple minutes also, (hands only or vibe) but takes a lot longer with someone else...if at all. I dont think there is any way around this. lol I do still enjoy the sex & also enjoy just playing with the toys/vibes even if I dont get off with them.

Wish you much luck.

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Lilltih75

10-Apr-06 18:50

Try circling the vibrator around your clit, while at the same time, squeezing and unsqueezing your vaginal muscles....that almost always pushes me over the edge. Try looking at or reading some porn before hand too, so you have some imagery to work with. And remember to breath! Hope this helps

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twog&g

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18-Apr-06 19:40

try this with the clit stimulater.Bought for my girl and she cums strongly with it everytime.

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lietchi

18-Apr-06 19:53

my ex girl friend was like this, I would fuck her for an hour sometimes, or oral for even longer, she had a very hard time cumming, there was one position that would get her off quick, that was on the bathroom sink, she would sit on the sink, and I infront of her, this always seemed to work for some reason, she told once that it was the best orgasm she ever had, but when I suggested that position to her she always said no ! I'm still perplexed at why she would not repeat that postion if it felt that good to her,AH ! women !....can't live em, can't live without em !

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18-Apr-06 20:45

You could try doing kegel exercises regularly to strengthen your PC muscles. Strengthening these muscles will make it easier for you to reach orgasm, and you'll be able to orgasm more frequently as well.

here's a link to instructions on kegel exercises:
http://www.rnceus.com/ui/ukegel.html

Seems kegels are also done to cure urinary incontinence, lol

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21-Apr-06 23:29

Don't know about the vibrator, but my last gf needed to be in an unusual position to come with me: She on top, her legs tight together between mine. She would wiggle and grind against me while I tweaked her nipples and always come (or so she said, and she always wanted this.) It didn't do much for me, since it wasn't possible to thrust, and I tended to soften a bit, but I suppose the stimulation was more about her clit rubbing the base of my cock and pubic area. I was happy she knew what she needed and was willing to ask for it. This usually followed more conventional positions, and afterward she'd finish me with a patient, skillful handjob.

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