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Advice please
20-Apr-18 10:27
I have known this couple for several years and always had a fancy for her, but would never ever have crossed the line or acted upon it as I had too much respect for her and her hubby.
For the last year her older husband has been ill and is in a care home and through tears she explained that she had lost him and he does not know where he is and was basically dying a slow death. We met a few times over a coffee and I tried to be a good listener and a shoulder for her to cry on.
One night we met in a bar and had a good chat and one drink led to another and before long we were both slightly drunk and started kissing. Due to the fact some of the people in the bar maybe knew her, we decided to go back to mine. To cut a long story short, we started kissing and she then suggested we go to bed and thinking back I should maybe have put a stop to it there and then as I have loads of respect for her and her hubby, but could not resist this sexy female that I always had a fancy for. We had amazing sex and she was all I ever thought she would be.
A few days later we met again for a coffee. She said she was feeling guilty, but had enjoyed the experiences and hoped I would never mention it to anyone ever. So I reassured her that i would not and that it takes two and I was as much to blame as her, so not to beat herself up over it and that i also enjoyed the experience very much. If it was not bad enough, the both of us were getting horny just talking about it and we ended up fucking again.
The next day I got another phone call with her very upset again and feeling more guilty than ever. So again I had to reassure her that nobody knew and nobody would ever know, so not to worry and that she was under no pressure from me to repeat and if she wished just to put it down to experience and it would not happen again.
In the last few days I have had text messages from her telling me she wants me and I am in two minds what to do. Half of me says I should stay away from her until she is less vulnerable and single. The other half of me says that I am helping her and giving her the release from her every day heartache and as nobody knows, there is no harm done. I have never been in a situation like this before and looking for advice on here, as it’s not something I can share with even the closest of friends. Do I go with the flow, or do I put a stop to this?
For the last year her older husband has been ill and is in a care home and through tears she explained that she had lost him and he does not know where he is and was basically dying a slow death. We met a few times over a coffee and I tried to be a good listener and a shoulder for her to cry on.
One night we met in a bar and had a good chat and one drink led to another and before long we were both slightly drunk and started kissing. Due to the fact some of the people in the bar maybe knew her, we decided to go back to mine. To cut a long story short, we started kissing and she then suggested we go to bed and thinking back I should maybe have put a stop to it there and then as I have loads of respect for her and her hubby, but could not resist this sexy female that I always had a fancy for. We had amazing sex and she was all I ever thought she would be.
A few days later we met again for a coffee. She said she was feeling guilty, but had enjoyed the experiences and hoped I would never mention it to anyone ever. So I reassured her that i would not and that it takes two and I was as much to blame as her, so not to beat herself up over it and that i also enjoyed the experience very much. If it was not bad enough, the both of us were getting horny just talking about it and we ended up fucking again.
The next day I got another phone call with her very upset again and feeling more guilty than ever. So again I had to reassure her that nobody knew and nobody would ever know, so not to worry and that she was under no pressure from me to repeat and if she wished just to put it down to experience and it would not happen again.
In the last few days I have had text messages from her telling me she wants me and I am in two minds what to do. Half of me says I should stay away from her until she is less vulnerable and single. The other half of me says that I am helping her and giving her the release from her every day heartache and as nobody knows, there is no harm done. I have never been in a situation like this before and looking for advice on here, as it’s not something I can share with even the closest of friends. Do I go with the flow, or do I put a stop to this?
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