I love watching people enjoying sex. That's the best of what you get here on NN - real people enjoying real sex. When you turn to professional porn to satisfy the desire to see lovemaking, you will be sadly disappointed MOST of the time.

Like today, for example: I found a MFM video with the gorgeous Sammi Rhodes - one of my favorite fantasy girls - and I thought, "Wow, this should be hot."

It was not. In fact, it was a big turn off.

It starts with a closeup of Sammi's pretty face. She says, "I'm Sammi Rhodes and today I'm going to have my first boy-boy-girl threeway!" Then a guy immediately grabs her by the hair and rams his fat dick down her throat until she gags. That's pretty much the video - two guys brutally throat-fucking her. Not cool.

When I see a sex video, I want to know that the woman was enjoying herself. I don't want to see her get throat-fucked and choked on cock. Don't get me wrong, I love getting deep throated, and I love the fact that very few women have been able to make it all the way down my shaft without gagging (kudos, honey!) But my impulse when I see a pretty woman is to caress her, to pleasure her, to worship her feminine flesh, not to her face.

That's no longer sex, it's violence. Why is the impulse to throat- her? What the fuck is wrong with people? They see beauty and they want to desecrate it. Most pro porn is not about sensuality or pleasure or intimacy, it's about power, it's about hatred of women, it's about the pathetic need for dominance in a world that makes you a slave.

Whatever: I watch pro porn and I end up just wanting to punch the guys in the dick. Bunch of fucking assholes.

That and a buck fifty will get you a ride on the bus...

It's really obvious when someone posts pro porn instead of real pics of themselves.

First off, professional porn scenes are lit too well. The backround and the foreground have even, clear lighting. Almost all amateur porn is poorly lit. It actually adds to its appeal, I think. Makes things seem a little mysterious, spontaneous, authentic.

Another tip off is the color. Porn made by pro photographers has perfect, even pink skin tones (for white people), while the amateur stuff is usually too red or too green and over- or underexposed. Once again, these qualities add to the titillation because you know they're real.

Another tip off is the bodies of the models. Pro porn people are usually too perfect, or somebody's idea of perfect, and many of the women have silicone boobs. Real people are a little fat, or a little too skinny, like me. Actually, seeing people with less than perfect bodies enjoying kinky sex and showing off on NN has really changed my ideas about what is hot. Hot is a state of mind, a feeling, a way of being. Sexy is as sexy does.

One last tip off that porn is pro is the setting. If it's too clean, too well decorated, then it's professional. Real amateur porn reveals the lack of planning by the photographers and models. We're just feeling hot and getting nasty and we did not pause to clean the place up. It's funny sometimes - you see a picture of a sexy woman posing naked amid a pile of laundry. Or a woman sucking cock on her knees and you can see a dog walking through the scene in the background. Empty beer bottles. Stacks of papers, children's toys, video cassette boxes. No professional photographer would have the wit or the time to make a scene look "reallly real." I love seeing a picture of a couple getting nasty and you look in the background and say, "Hey, they use the same laundry soap as us!" Pretty hilarious.

So next time you're browsing, take a look for these telltale signs that the picture is a "fake" amateur submission.

It's really obvious when someone posts pro porn instead of real pics of themselves.

First off, professional porn scenes are too well lit. The backround and the foreground have even, clear lighting. Almost all amateur porn is poorly lit. It actually adds to its appeal, I think. Makes things seem a little mysterious, spontaneous, authentic.

Another tip off is the color. Porn made by pro photographers has perfect, even pink skin tones (for white people), while the amateur stuff is usually too red or too green and over- or underexposed. Once again, these qualities add to the titillation because you know they're real.

Another tip off is the bodies of the models. Pro porn people are usually too perfect, or somebody's idea of perfect, and many of the women have silicone boobs. Real people are a little fat, or a little too skinny, like me. Actually, seeing people with less than perfect bodies enjoying kinky sex and showing off on NN has really changed my ideas about what is hot. Hot is a state of mind, a feeling, a way of being. Sexy is as sexy does.

One last tip off that porn is pro is the setting. If it's too clean, too well decorated, then it's professional. Real amateur porn reveals the lack of planning by the photographers and models. We're just feeling hot and getting nasty, so we did pause to clean up. It's funny sometimes - you see a picture of a sexy woman posing naked amid a pile of laundry. Or a woman sucking cock on her knees and you can see a dog walking through the scene in the background. Empty beer bottles. Stacks of papers, children's toys, video cassette boxes. No professional photographer would have the wit or the time to make a scene look "reallly real." I love seeing a picture of a couple getting nasty and you look in the background and say, "Hey, they use the same laundry soap as us!" Pretty hilarious.

So next time you're browsing, take a look for these telltale signs that the picture is a "fake" amateur submission.

You know the old saying, every picture tells a story? That's true. In fact, it's part of what makes the photos on Newbie Nudes sexy - the stories behind the photos, either the real ones or the ones we imagine. I have noticed a few of my nn friends disappearing over time - deleted pictures, deleted accounts. It makes me wonder why. I know there's no way to ever know for sure, but you can make guesses. Like this one account, a guy shown putting his big cock in various parts of his pretty girlfriend in various positions. Plus a suck and facial video. Well, one picture had a caption, something like, "She got mad and deleted these, so I'm re-uploading them." Within a week, the account was gone entirely. Sure looked like a boyfriend either showing off his girlfriend without her consent or showing his ex-girlfriend to piss her off. In either case, it looks like there was hell to pay when the cute gal found out she was featured on the internet with a nine inch penis down her throat.
Then there are the boyfriends committing acts of revenge with the few pictures they have of the girl who jilted them. Ridiculous, pathetic shit. That shit should disappear but it doesn't. There also the pretty young things who came out of the gate strong - full frontal shots, including face, as their first submissions. A lot of people are more cautious than that, especially when they first start uploading. But this little gal was showing it all with no fear. Or was she? Suddenly, all pictures gone! And her boyfriend, who is independently on this site, also deleted all pictures of them together. Sounds like another post-breakup drama. Or maybe his posting the pictures broke them up? One can only wonder. Then again, there are people who are on nn to get something emotional or psychological, some kind of approval of their feelings and their body, and once they get they need through comments and pm's, they are satisfied and bail out. "It was just a phase," they'll say. Anyway, there are stories spinning out beyond the reach of the computer for our fellow nn'ers that we get tiny glimpses of - in their pictures, and in their removal of pictures.
All best, Mr. J

I must admit I didn't understand the Friend system on NN at first. Different users come to the site for different things. My wife and I are here to share our sexual energy, to turn you on, and enjoy the sexual energy you share. Neither of us is here for a hook-up. Although we have entertained the idea of some kinky adventures involving other people, you should know that we're not experienced swingers. But we are laid-back, fun people. We've never met any swingers, either, but the idea intiruges. Swingers are generally more relaxed and like sharing and enjoying. I think the "civilians" out there can get threatened by a friend request. What I would say to them is: don't get uptight. We're just looking to share and give appreciation to other sexy people. As I wrote in my earlier blog, the beauty of NN is that we can all be pornstars in ways that makes us and others feel good but is not threatening to our relationships or careers. So, relax, enjoy, share, and know that, if we ask you to be our friend, we are not about to burst through your door! We just think you're sexy too.
Mr. and Mrs. Jojo

Hi, and thanks for checking us out!

I love this site! I find it much hotter than most professional porn sites because the people are real. That's the best part about NN. Pro porn can be depressing to watch when you let yourself think, "Damn! These people are way too hot. I feel like a pile of old rags compared to them." But NN helped me get over that. Looking at all you hot amateurs, I realized, "Damn! There are a lot of hot people out there! And regular people just like me! Hey! I guess I'm hot too!" That makes me feel good. You know what feels best? When I get comments and PMs from other members saying things like, "Wow, you're hot!" "I want to fuck you!" "Damn! What I could do to you in bed..." Reading your honest expressions of lust make me feel so good!

My wife and I have a wonderful sex life. We're at it everyday, multiple times per day, if we can get the time away from our regular jobs! I'm happy to have a committed, stable relationship, and I'm not looking for any outside action. What's great about NN is that we can enjoy watching your sexuality, you can enjoy ours, and it present no threat to either of our primary relationships. It's really the best of both worlds - hot sex and emotional security. NN has really enhanced our sex life. Sharing our sex pictures, and enjoying yours, has opened up new realms of sensual pleasure for us together and individually. We don't have to imagine being pornstars - we already are! And that makes me feel hot, sexy, powerful, attractive, desirable, valued.

I love NN for the real sex-freaks, just like me, who love to show the world their bodies and do sex on camera so other people can get off, too. I love thinking about all you hot couples out there doing all kinds of nasty things in the privacy of your own home/backyard/boat and knowing that you are as hot, sexy, and kinky as any pornstar. It's true, you are!

What's the difference between pornstars and us, the nasty amateur community? We don't try to make our living from having sex on camera. We just do it for a thrill. I imagine the sex is much better and the whole experience is more sensual and relaxed because we do it just for kink, not for cash. The worst part of professional porn is the fakery. It's awful watching a woman have sex and it's obvious she's not into the guy, she's only in it for the money. I get off on watching women feel pleasure. Watching a woman cum can make me explode instantly. It's totally awesome watching a woman who LOVES COCK going mental on her man's tool, stroking, sucking, fucking, doing everything she wants to satisfy her titanic LUST! That's cool.

I mean, why would God have made us with bodies and libidos if we weren't meant to enjoy them? We are meant to enjoy them! It's those people on this site who understand that that make it worthwhile. So get your fucking groove on!

I love getting off on your pictures, and I want you to get off looking at my pictures. I love doing sex on camera. In fact, my current fantasy is to have a woman or a couple video my wife and me doing the nasty. I love imagining our director telling us what to do, how she wants us to fuck to make the video as nasty and memorable as possible. Maybe someday...