Today I took my bank account online. I have done this before, but troubles arose when I couldn't remember my password.

Let me explain:

The bank decided, for security reasons at that time, that your password should be changed every month. I simply forgot to write down the one I had changed the last time. There were three security questions to answer to retrieve my password, but they must have been case sensitive, because even though I knew the answers, I couldn't get in.

So I let it go for a long time.

When I re-opened it today, I could see things have changed on their site. No more security questions. We shall see if they expect me to change my password again after a month.

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A few months ago, I talked about a girl I went to high school with. To shorten a long story, she was in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. I tried to help her out, even offering to drive to another town where she lives and take her away.

She finally said (after a week) that she had thrown him out and had gotten a restraining order against him. That was very good to hear, but then she asked me out on a date. Although I had harbored a crush on her since school, I declined. I knew it was too soon, that it would only wind up with her transferring her emotions onto me.

We have kept in touch, mostly through Facebook.

So last night I was chatting with her on Facebook, just joking around, when all of a sudden the tone of the conversation changed drastically. Her boyfriend had taken her phone away and started to threaten me. I told him we were just joking around, but I apologized and didn't want to interfere with them. He wanted me to (in his words) "not talk to her."

So fine. Then she sends me another message saying it's the same guy she was with a few months ago and she couldn't leave him, even though he still hit her all the time.

I signed off and left it alone for the night.

Today, I went back to Facebook and unfriended her and set it up to where I will no longer receive any contact with her again. Why was I so harsh? Last night I thought of the old saying: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

Hard as it was to not get involved in the situation, I realized that if she went back to him, she knew what she was getting into. That says she's either not strong enough inside yet to get away, or she is punishing herself for God knows what reason.

I've said it time and again: I'm too old to let drama into my life any more.

I hope she realizes what she must do before it's too late and I know it's cold to say, but...

It is NOT my problem.

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... interact with people the virtual way.


Whether it's dating or sex, your computer is a handy (pun intended) way to stay virus free.

Saturday will be a triple header of the Foreign Legion.

'March or Die', with Gene Hackman,

'Legionnaire' with Jean Claude Van Damme and

'Beau Geste', the 1939 classic with Gary Cooper.


I hope I can keep the sand out of my boots.

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Squeal like a pig!

Friday, April 17th at 10 pm (U.S.A. Eastern time) on Turner Classic Movies.


I'm all set to record this classic.

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Sunday I broke the floater in my toilet tank while trying to adjust the water level. Monday I called the landlord for a plumber.

Today (Tuesday) I had to wait 4 hours for him to show up and perform a 5 minute replacement job.

I'm not complaining. It was worth the wait. Now I don't have to turn on the water to fill the tank, then turn it off after flushing each time I use the toilet.

One more 'load' (pun intended) off my mind.

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the lesser of two evils.

There are two songs that define where my head is at these days. "The Pretender" by Jackson Browne and this little ditty:


Just a peak inside the madness of my mind.

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As people are spending more time at home with family, I thought this song appropriate:


There is great strength in controlling your anger.

All I achieved today (besides eating) was doing a load of laundry and taking a long walk.

And I'm o.k. with that.

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