Last weekend (the 13/14th) The Wife and I fucked pretty good one time. During the week, nothing happening. This past Saturday, we ended up working about an hour apart - me at home and her in a hotel - She ran out of supplies so I drove to bring them to her and stayed overnight. I had hoped for some loving, but nothing happening. Drove home early (5 Am) on Sunday to go back to my work. Worked with my regular assistant and The Ex with my food truck at a festival and had a pretty good day.
Thought that maybe The Wife would be in the mood even if tired on Sunday night, but she got her period and was 'too sore' all over from work so nothing happening which probably means nothing for at least another week.
The Ex, on the other hand, made it clear that she is VERY ready to fuck again so we are trying to meet up tomorrow afternoon.
It should be an interesting week.

Although we have talked about going to bed early to fuck, The Wife is usually rather insistent about staying up to watch the news and weather (I keep remind her that we cannot change either and that the weather will still be there in the morning). Anyway, Wednesday evening we went to bed at our normal time around 10:30 after the news. Surprisingly, she started getting frisky with me - well who am I to argue? Next thing I know, she is blowing me and I am fingering her. I move to lick her but she complains that she cannot suck me while I am doing that so I get back up and let her suck while I finger her. The BJ is getting to be too much so I tell her that I want to fuck. I proceed to fuck her to 2 LOUD orgasms but I have not cum yet (probably because I had been on here jerking off a few times that day). She becomes rather obsessed with getting me to cum so since I was still hard, I go back to fucking her. She cums one more time and I finally cum as well. All in all, a nice way to end the day.

The Wife and I (along with my younger son age 22) took a trip to visit my mom. As usual, The Wife and I stayed in her 'guest' cottage for privacy, and due to lack of space in the main house - this is my folks weekend place, sure wish I had a weekend place. Got in Thursday evening and both quickly fell asleep. Friday evening, I was not feeling well due to too much sun, but she was in the mood, so we cuddled on the sofa and fooled around a bit before moving it to the bedroom where we had a pretty good fuck. As usual with her, it tends to be mostly play with each other a bit then fuck with minimal oral unless I push that aspect and since I was not feeling great (but was not going to turn down sex) I decided to take what was offered. She came 2 or 3 times and I came once. Nothing more Saturday night or Sunday when we got home but hoping for 'something' this week.

The Wife wakes up a bit on the horny side this morning and after a few minutes I went to fuck her. Fucked her to at least 2 orgasms. Oddly enough, I was unable to cum which was pretty frustrating, but I guess I am still a bit unsure of myself with her since the blowup last year and not sure if she really wants to fuck or if she is doing it to keep me from fucking others.
For the time being, at least, I am not fucking anyone else (although The Ex and I have been talking about it).

So this morning we 'broke in' the sleep number bed and it was interesting. Not as easy as the old waterbed to fuck on, but not bad. Probably need to make some pressure adjustments but to an extent we are both sleeping better. It is definitely different. Any of you have experience with them? Input is welcome.

So we spent yesterday putting together a new (used) sleep number bed. I sort of figured that when we went to sleep we would try to break it in, but nope - nothing ... Crickets .... To be fair, I suspect she it on her period and she is not a fan of sex during that time, but I was hopeful. On a positive note, we both slept better than usual on the new bed although I DO need to make an adjustment to my sleep number and get used to the feel of it. I suspect that it will be good for fucking, as it feels a bit like our old water bed.

So a few days after the last update, we had a pretty good, somewhat longer fuck and then a quickie a few days ago. I guess I should be glad to get what I get, but I really prefer longer, more 'involved' sessions with lots of oral and foreplay.

So after yesterdays blog about nothing happening, The Wife surprised me with a quickie this morning.

Well, I had sort of stopped updating this blog as sex with The Wife had become somewhat regular, but lately she has gone back to the old routine of promising but not delivering. We go to bed and 'snuggle' as she holds on to my dick but nothing more. I had really expected 'something' over the holiday, but nothing happening. Not really sure where this will go, but we have a few trips planned this fall so I will see. If nothing changes, I guess we will have to go back to counseling or, ultimately it will not really be worth it.

Sunday, the day after my birthday, I had to work and The Wife went off with a friend of hers for a day in the country. They apparently had fun and my day was busy. We both got home about the same time and she seemed rather horny, but I was tired and not really 'in the mood' for random shenanigans. We both had to shower and then sat down to watch TV.
When we went to bed, she picked up where she had left off and at this point I was more in the mood. I sucked on her tits for a bit and then moved down to eat her now, smoothly shaven pussy. While doing so, I fingered her and then moved to add a finger to her ass. All the while, she was jerking me which was feeling better and better. Well, as I moved my finger more into her ass she went WILD she ended up vibing herself while I was eating her and fingering both her pussy and her ass and had one of the strongest orgasms that I can remember. We then fucked to her having at least one more orgasm.
Overall a pretty good night.
Note - definitely need to include more ass play with her!