I tried last week a few times to get The Wife started / interested in mid-week sex because I was hornier than usual but no luck. Yesterday, I worked during the day and came home pretty worn out so ended up snoozing on the sofa for most of the afternoon. We stayed up to watch SNL and I truly did not expect anything when we went to bed, but was pleasantly surprised. Ate and fingered her to at least one orgasm and then fucked her to another. This included me spanking her a bit which she seemed to enjoy as I was fingering her from the back at the same time. All in all, a pretty nice night - I am sure she will sleep till 10 or so this morning.

I decided to put in more effort lat night to see if things would get started. It worked. We had a decent fuck she was quite reactive when I ate her and she blew me quite nicely. Lasted about 60 minutes total and we both slept well following.

Well, it has been over a month with no sex despite ongoing attempts. I will admit that The Wife has been under the weather quite a bit so there is that ...Last night we went out to a concert and had a great time, it is her birthday weekend and when we got home she seemed to be 'in the mood' . We did fuck and it was pretty good but not as active as some.

I spent some time with The Ex, no piv, but I did eat her a couple of times and jerked off on her pussy and then ate her as she was quite worked up from that. All this ended up with me having massive anxiety about The Wife finding out so it will not happen again, it is simply not worth it to throw away what has now become a pretty decent marriage for some mediocre sex. When she got home The Wife was quite horny, but we got home too late from the airport to fuck, but the following night was a nice return to 'normalcy'

So right now, The Wife is out of town due to family issues, but last week before she left, we were sitting on the deck just relaxing (do not remember what else we were doing - probably playing on phones and reading. She went inside to get in more 'comfortable clothes' and was telling me to go change into shorts, but I was doing my thing on the phone. next thing I know she is sitting in the chair and pulled her shirt down and playing with her nipples - well, that got my attention! We ended up fooling around with me fingering her and eating her and her blowing me on the deck! WOW! I have been trying for many years to get her to fool around on the deck so this was s surprise. We ended up going inside to fuck which was definitely better than average. I am hoping that when she returns at the end of this week, she has built up similar desire.

Well, I spoke too soon, it has now been 2 weeks with little affection and no sex at all. Oh well .....

Well .... This past weekend was ... interesting. I was quite tired Saturday afternoon and The Wife convinced me to lay down on our bed and then she joined me - actually sat on me, I was naked and she had on underwear, she started grinding on me and we realized neither of us was going to get rest - lol. What ensued was almost 2 hours of sex, me eating her for over 45 minutes and good fucking. It was a surprise and we both enjoyed it - as best as I could figure she came 3 times.

Last weekend, we had a pretty decent fuck Saturday night and again this week. The Wife's father passed away unexpectedly, so she will have to travel to Germany soon but we are waiting on funeral arrangements.

I have been super busy and just not had time to update the Blog. Basically we have had some sort of sex about every weekend. I would much prefer twice a week, but that seems to be off the table. The Wife has initiated once in this time, which I truly enjoy, last week we were out of town and had a day where we just stayed in the hotel all day to relax and mid morning we ended up in bed with her riding me along with a bit of oral on both sides. It is situations like this that give me hope! All in all, I am glad we are having fairly regular sex, I just still feel that she is sort of going along to keep me happy.

I was hoping it would be Friday night so we could have 2 nights in a row, but The Wife felt ill after a family dinner on Friday. Soooo - When we went to bed Saturday things got started pretty quickly with a bit of oral on both sides and I put on the sleeve. We talked a bit during this time as well about me wanting her to learn to put the sleeve on me and me already looking for vibrating panties for her. I got it on and ate her some more while she played with me with the sleeve on (which is interesting) She ended up cumming strongly from me going down on her and I was close from the sleeve vibrating and her playing with me but I held off. I went and fucked her with the sleeve vibrating which seemed to drive her nuts and she came at least one more time from what I could tell. Then --- Leg cramp! Darn! We took a break and re started but I could not cum. I went to sleep still wearing the sleeve with it tucked between her ass cheeks which she indicated she enjoyed. Woke up in the middle of the night to pee and took it off. Woke up early on Sunday and hung on the FB for a bit then went to wake her up so I could cum which I did.