Last night was sort of 'basic' TBH, I was tired and, although always ready, I did not have enough energy for an extended lovemaking session. The Wife got in bed and after a few minutes started playing with my recently shaved dick. I wan not sure where this was headed but after a few minutes she made it clear that she was in the mood. We ended up having a pretty basic fuck, no oral, but we both came with intensity.

We did have a pretty decent fuck 2 weeks ago then last week she was too tired. Had a busy day yesterday, but I did eat her to a SCREAMING orgasm and then fucked her for a bit but could not cum myself - oh well, it was still rather fun.

We had a busy day and ended up gong to bed a bit later than usual (watched most of SNL) and I did not really expect anything to happen, but we did end up having a pretty good session. I ate her for a bit while she played with my dick then we fucked but I could not cum although I think she did. She did want to cum again so got her vibe out and I sucked her nipples and fingered her while she vibed to another orgasm. Not a bad evening and I was hoping for a repeat on Sunday but no luck. I was surprised I could not cum on Saturday since I had not jerked off for a few days.

Sex on 'work' nights is pretty much non-existent because The Wife wants to get to sleep and get her rest, so that leaves Friday or Saturday night. Well it had been 3 weeks and despite trying and talking about it, nothing happening and I REFUSE to be pushy and have told her as much - in part so I do not come across as pushy and also because she spent 20 years refusing me and I do not need the disappointment.
Well .... Sunday night I was frustrated and when we went to bed (a bit later than usual) I *gently* voiced my frustration and surprisingly she even realized that it had been 3 weeks - she was the one who said this - She said I had voiced my intent to have sex but not followed through, I said that I had tried and she did not respond or fell asleep. She said I should have tried harder and she is 'always up for it' (we will see). Anyway, we did have a pretty good session including me eating her to one strong orgasm followed my me fucking her to one or maybe two more and I did cum in her as I like to do.
All in all about an hour and we both slept pretty well.
I WILL be testing out her claim to always being willing over the next few weeks.

Well, Friday night I *thought* there would be some 'action' but she started enough to get my dick leaking and then stopped - very frustrating! I was not really hopeful for Saturday night especially since it has been 2 weeks but things did get started and I ate her to 2 orgasms and fucked her to 2 more then she vibed herself to another. I enjoyed but did not manage to cum. She indicated that we would have another round on Sunday, but that did not happen (no surprise there). All in all, I enjoyed it, just wish she would follow thru on promises.
I DO keep[ thinking about fucking The Ex, but it would be a bad idea and even when I thought we had time setup to meet, she is always too busy.

I tried last week a few times to get The Wife started / interested in mid-week sex because I was hornier than usual but no luck. Yesterday, I worked during the day and came home pretty worn out so ended up snoozing on the sofa for most of the afternoon. We stayed up to watch SNL and I truly did not expect anything when we went to bed, but was pleasantly surprised. Ate and fingered her to at least one orgasm and then fucked her to another. This included me spanking her a bit which she seemed to enjoy as I was fingering her from the back at the same time. All in all, a pretty nice night - I am sure she will sleep till 10 or so this morning.

I decided to put in more effort lat night to see if things would get started. It worked. We had a decent fuck she was quite reactive when I ate her and she blew me quite nicely. Lasted about 60 minutes total and we both slept well following.

Well, it has been over a month with no sex despite ongoing attempts. I will admit that The Wife has been under the weather quite a bit so there is that ...Last night we went out to a concert and had a great time, it is her birthday weekend and when we got home she seemed to be 'in the mood' . We did fuck and it was pretty good but not as active as some.

I spent some time with The Ex, no piv, but I did eat her a couple of times and jerked off on her pussy and then ate her as she was quite worked up from that. All this ended up with me having massive anxiety about The Wife finding out so it will not happen again, it is simply not worth it to throw away what has now become a pretty decent marriage for some mediocre sex. When she got home The Wife was quite horny, but we got home too late from the airport to fuck, but the following night was a nice return to 'normalcy'

So right now, The Wife is out of town due to family issues, but last week before she left, we were sitting on the deck just relaxing (do not remember what else we were doing - probably playing on phones and reading. She went inside to get in more 'comfortable clothes' and was telling me to go change into shorts, but I was doing my thing on the phone. next thing I know she is sitting in the chair and pulled her shirt down and playing with her nipples - well, that got my attention! We ended up fooling around with me fingering her and eating her and her blowing me on the deck! WOW! I have been trying for many years to get her to fool around on the deck so this was s surprise. We ended up going inside to fuck which was definitely better than average. I am hoping that when she returns at the end of this week, she has built up similar desire.