Will update a bit later, but for now i will just copy and paste from my dating site profile to give you an idea... *************************************************** hi there ladies... sorry for the essay but please read i believe i'm a decent guy, not too boring, not too eccentric. Oh and not a creep, looser, weirdo.... just a normal aussie bloke i'm here looking for something very specific, please dont judge me if you dont agree with what i'm looking for. i'm not out to hurt anyone or be dishonest and that why i want to be upfront with what i want in a relationship. i'm looking for the right type of girl to date and start a relationship with. i've had some long term relationships in the past and while they were great we just wanted to live different lifestyles. so i'm here looking for a girl that wants to live the same lifestyle as me. i'm talking about being free to live on the wild side while still being in a loving and completely committed relationship. what do i mean? i mean you would be free to explore your sexual being without jealousy and without shame. i have been into the swingers lifestyle for a while and have had a few threesomes, foursomes and been to swingers parties, and would like to find a girl that is open to that type of lifestyle. i know this isnt for everyone but i'm only looking for the one in the crowd. and when i find her she will be pampered, adored, treated like a lady, and loved for who she is... i am an attractive fun loving guy with a gsoh, i'm ambitious and want to make something of my life, i'm also close to my family and want to start a family of my own. i've been told i would make a great dad. i'm a [u]romantic[/u] and i love to surprise my loved one with romantic dinners, amazing dates, things that go way beyond the normal guys idea of romance... [b]****"stuff you only see in the movies"****[/b] i'm into a lot of things and my life isnt just all about sex. i love my sport, footy, soccer... anything that keeps me fit and has a competitive side to it. i love music, i cant live without it and almost find myself getting depressed if i go for long periods without spending some time listening to some music. i enjoy concerts and festivals. i'd like to meet some cool ppl and start a band also. i love the outdoors but dont spend enough time outdoors lately, we have a wonderful planet and we should look after it. i love kids and have gone back to uni to study and hopefully start a new career giving some kids a better go at life (they deserve it)... well thats a bit about me to show that, while sex is a big thing in my life, its not everything, and i'm just as interesting out of the sack as i am in it. what i'm looking for... well the obvious thing is i'm looking for an open minded person. someone thats very sexual and like to try new things. someone open to meeting couples, other singles and groups. someone friendly down to earth and not judgemental i like people with "ambition" and want to make something of them selves. its easy for me to like a girl that wants to be the best she can be in her area of interest. i'm a slim/athletic guy and would prefer someone similar build as me, someone that looks after themself. look of course are important. but i hear many girls saying how they are unhappy with the way they look but some i find are extremely attractive so please let me be the judge if i find you attractive or not. girls just arnt a good judge of their own looks, they either are beautiful and think they are not or they think they are hot stuff but are really just plain. shy girls, outgoing girls, classy girls, sporty girls, ambitious girls... all are good negative/depressed girls, b!tchy girls, girls that think the're gods gift, compulsive liars, girls that dont look after themself, well lets just say i would not want to date them this all may sound a bit picky but really i'm a pritty easy going guy tho, you chat to me and i'll chat back. if your single, interested in a swingers lifestyle, maybe bi, and think you might like to get to know me then get in contact... dont be shy i dont bite, well i dont bite strangers, umm well i promise i wont bite if you dont want me to... lol we can start with a coffee and a chat or whatever... dont want to rush things as we both know what we will be getting up to in the future as we get to know each other better. just want to date you first and and work at making our relationship strong and take things from there talk to you soon ps: i have plenty of photos (face pics) for you to see if you just ask for them, i'm a professional guy and not everyone accepts my lifestyle so there's a need to be discrete hence no face pic on here. and ladies, i get that my lifestyle might rub some of u the wrong way (hmmm rub :p) but hey, theres nothing wrong with a thanks but no thanks is there? im suprised how many ladies will be chatting away on im with me then simply close the window or even block me once they have read my profile... im not meaning to offend u by making contact, so please dont be... thanks