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The main difference between porn sex and real sex...
7-Apr-06 21:20
I am certainly not trying to come off here as an expert when it comes to sex. I have had a very limited amount of partners. They have all been of people whom I cared about and wanted to sexually satisfy as much as I receive. My observations here stem from watching porn, and also watching amateur porn. The key here is entertainment, so maybe this thread is unnecessary. But in professional porn, the majority of the audience are obviously men. And the producers realize that, so they do not spend time trying to make the women seem like they are truly enjoying it. Face it; most of the load moaning you hear is from the actress part of a porn star. She thinks, the louder I sound the more the male viewer will enjoy the show. But typically she is getting pounded away with no regards to her sexual interests. It’s all a show.
Having browsed the amateur porn scene on the Internet and purchased (happily, I might add) the premium account on this site, I find that either 1) many of the couples in the videos are just putting on the show and aren't necessarily bothering with 100% pleasuring each other or 2) The guys truly don't know what they are doing!?! Rarely do I even see the male partner's hands going anywhere near the female’s clitoris.
Once again, I'm not trying to say I'm an expert at sex. BUT, statistically it is shown that most women do not achieve an orgasm through regular intercourse. It’s all about giving an extra hand
And in my limited experience this fact goes a long way! Hell, sometimes I could make my partner cum faster than me, which sometimes can be pretty sad! But I just bring up this point because I fear that many men only know and learn sex from porn and therefore their partners may not be getting the experience they deserve. This may be news to no one, but I wanted to see what you all thought on the matter.
Do most men not know how to pleasure their wives/girlfriends? Should they be taking less advice from porn and more from their partner?
Having browsed the amateur porn scene on the Internet and purchased (happily, I might add) the premium account on this site, I find that either 1) many of the couples in the videos are just putting on the show and aren't necessarily bothering with 100% pleasuring each other or 2) The guys truly don't know what they are doing!?! Rarely do I even see the male partner's hands going anywhere near the female’s clitoris.
Once again, I'm not trying to say I'm an expert at sex. BUT, statistically it is shown that most women do not achieve an orgasm through regular intercourse. It’s all about giving an extra hand
And in my limited experience this fact goes a long way! Hell, sometimes I could make my partner cum faster than me, which sometimes can be pretty sad! But I just bring up this point because I fear that many men only know and learn sex from porn and therefore their partners may not be getting the experience they deserve. This may be news to no one, but I wanted to see what you all thought on the matter.Do most men not know how to pleasure their wives/girlfriends? Should they be taking less advice from porn and more from their partner?
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