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Friday, October 9, 2009, 6:52:58 PM- Not sure how...

to feel. I'm starting the upward climb from being sick with the flu and now I feel like I'm getting an ear infection on top of it all. But to make me feel even worse is that I was taken off a fb page b/c I comment "too much" (which I don't) and they didn't want things to ripple the 'water'...whatever I guess.

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Most Recent Comment:	"eep!! Feel better!" - mdguy

Saturday, September 5, 2009, 3:40:34 AM- This is HILARIOUSLY nasty lol

[url]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b81ZahUvdCM[/url]

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Most Recent Comment:	"LOL was hilarious" - naughty_but_innocent

Saturday, September 5, 2009, 2:48:37 AM- LOL

I couldn't pass this up...Wenchie, I'm copying you ehre

hehe

[url]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4fPHt0FjEU&feature=related[/url]

and another one...

[url]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qPROXhnoUm8&feature=related[/url]

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Thursday, August 20, 2009, 5:08:01 AM- So on Monday,

I decided to check my stuff on his computer and while on his pc, I searched annulment just to see what the limitations were for it. Later while he was online he went to search for something else and seen annulment in the search drop down and he asked me if I had looked at it and I said yes but that's all I did was look. I eventually started to cry and after a couple minutes I told him that I feel like he's married to the computer not me. So he got sad (understandable) and went to bed. We layed in bed and talked about some things. He said he doesn't want to lose me and he'll do whatever he has to, like spending less time on the computer. So he has been doing a little better. We shall see if things get even better. Part of me is still confused but I do want my marriage to work.....

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Most Recent Comment:	"Step one has been done. Keep up the steps, and go as slow as you both need to." - mdguy

Sunday, August 16, 2009, 9:58:29 PM- Communication,

is somewhat difficult between us. For some reason I don't feel like I can sit down and have a serious conversation with him, maybe because he'd have hurt feelings or maybe because he'd get mad at what I think (the truth). I don't really know, I can communicate well with others, just have a hard time with him.

Plus I was reading in Cosmopolitan last night and they have an article in there about going with your gut instinct. I think maybe mine was MIA around the time we got married and it's now catching up. I really wish I knew the solution to this problem, other than divorce, but I'm not sure there is much of a solution. Will have to wait and see, I'm gonna give him a couple months to see if anything changes and/or improves, if not...I'm gonna have to come up with a way of saying it's over, and man I don't want to hurt him, but I can't live my life like this either. Time will tell.

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"Okay, I know we don't talk much, but I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH! I spent 4 years with a guy like him...playing stupid role-play computer games and hiding porn from me. I could literally sit on the guys lap naked and he would get pissy and freak out because he might have missed a que to level up or something.. Anyway, I "went with my gut" and kicked him to the curb, granted we weren't married, but we were together for a very long time.. I have to say, I am happier now having done so, BUT I do still miss him. We had lots of other issues, but I'll tell ya, I went with the motto "I won't be miserable for another person's happiness". On that note, since you ARE married, I would definitely suggest couples counseling. What he's doing is running from his everyday life & problems and running to the computer. It got so bad at my house (and I'm not telling you to do this by anyyyy means!) but I got to where I would disable the computer so that he couldn't play JUST so I could spend time with him. Maybe you guys could agree to disable the internet from say...8 pm til the next day so that you have quality time together? I dunno, compromise, that's what being in a relationship is about, but you need your husband, not a gamer that you sleep with every so often, trust me, it doesn't get better until you guys sort it out... Hope that helps!! Feel free to message me if you ever need an ear to listen about this, I know it's very heart breaking and stressful..."

- cute_lil_cajun_one

Saturday, August 15, 2009, 6:09:50 AM- I feel like....

I don't want to be married right now!?!?!? I dunno tho, I want to be with someone just don't want to be married at the moment. Seems odd because for the longest time I couldn't wait to get married. Will have to wait and see what happens.

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Thursday, August 13, 2009, 6:36:47 PM- So I've talked to ppl,

and although my husband and I had a conversation where he realized he spends too much time on the computer, between games (mostly) and porn, I'm still at a standstill. I think I still need to write a cpl things down for him, but I don't know how that will go. He was a little better yesterday, but today started his first of 6 back at work. I don't want the computer to be a cop out of being stressed at work, I get stressed too but don't use that excuse. I'm gonna give him some time to try and change and we'll see how things go. I feel like we rushed into things last year, between meeting in may, him visiting in july, and moving up here in august. I do love him, but at the same time I have to do what is right for me. I don't want my marriage to fail, but I also don't want to have to do it all on my own. I did ask him the other night if he thinks we rushed into marriage and he said no, but I think we did. Why couldn't I have had these doubts/feelings 4 months ago?

So there's that for now.

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Most Recent Comment:	"Wishing the two of you best ... keep the communications open, honest, and civil and you should be able to work through many problems." - kccouple1954

Wednesday, August 12, 2009, 5:52:25 AM- So, lately I've been thinking,

or trying to think. These past couple weeks have been kinda tough for me. Not sure what happened to make me feel the way I have been but I've been feeling it and I am emotionally drained because of it.

The scoop...I have issues with my marriage. I feel like I'm just a "maid" and I'm here for the occasional sex. For almost the past year I have taken the back burner to my husband playing games/looking at porn on the computer (the games are frequented the most). We don't cuddle during movies, I do the laundry and occasionally he helps take it down the basement or upstairs, otherwise it's me doing it.

I guess my main issue is that I feel like we rushed into getting married (the 15th will be 3 months) and I'm not sure this is what I really want. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband and I do care about him, but at the same time, what about me? How long do I have to take the backseat to the computer?? I think I worry too much about hurting others that I don't really think about how I feel.

I don't want to break his heart, but at the same time I don't know if our being married is right either. With this being my first real relationship and not thinking I could find anyone that would want to be with me, I thought he was the one and we got married.

My plan is to write him a letter letting him know how I feel because I don't know how to bring up the subject without crying right away, but maybe he'll try and talk to me about it. I know I'll have to give him to try and change but I don't know how long or what to do. It makes this more difficult because we are planning a fairly big camping trip next month and I don't want to ruin that but also the holidays are right around the corner.

Not to mention I don't want to hurt him because he moved here to MN all the way from SC. So I dunno. Any feedback is welcomed.

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Most Recent Comment:	"He moved to MN from SC... that's great. His mind has to join his body, too. Once it does, he'll be fully engaged in everything. You will have to remind him to be there, all of him." - mdguy

Saturday, May 16, 2009, 4:33:20 AM- /me is now.....

MARRIED!!! What a day, was crazy busy but it all came together! And my head, no more bobby pins, it feels soo much better, I had a headache plus my scalp hurt from all those damn pins, 1/4 of them which were broken. All is good now though.

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"it has taken a while to read the blog from start to finish, sprinkling comments that you may or may not find, but it has been a worthwhile trip. congrats on the wedding!
on another subject, it is surprising that you guys are not already pregnant, since pulling out does leave all those little wigglies that escape before orgasm. some of that pre-cum is sperm. hell, why am i trying to give you a lesson on anatomy? you probably are pregnant by now. if so, congratulations. if not, make sure you and hubby are well grounded with each other before you try for babies. they change your life in so many ways that you never think of."

- stucco bill

Friday, May 15, 2009, 7:08:05 AM- In less than 15 hours....

I will be a Mrs.!!!! YaY!!!!! See yall on the flip side

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Most Recent Comment:	"Thanks guys =) xoxox" - naughty_but_innocent