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23 year old virgin needs advice

25-Apr-06 02:18

1st of all, I'm not ugly shy or gay. I had a bad experience when i was 19. I was going to have sex for the first time and I was kinda rushed into it and I had been drinking and the room was dark and i couldn't see the girl and I was nervous. Cut to four years later, I haven't had sex becuase I'm nervous after that experience and don't want it to happen again, and also don't want the girl to think I'm inexperienced, but I want to fuck so bad. Any advice guys, this ever happen 2 you?

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ccups

25-Apr-06 03:39

I’m not sure having sex in the dark qualifies as a bad experience,
So I assume something during the process went tragically wrong?
Did you accidentally put her eye out?? Fuck her dog by mistake?
End up in her grandmother’s room in the dark??
I can’t think of anything less than those things that could possibly
keep a 19 year old from jumping right back on and trying again??
If it was just a case of premature ejaculation, that’s pretty much
expected the first time. The next 5 or 6 usually take longer.
Of course with a 4 year layoff your back to the first time again.

I guess there’s not much advise I can give except,, get over
Whatever you think happened and get laid.. Nothing replaces
experience. About the only way a girl isn’t going to know that
you’re inexperienced is if she’s as inexperienced as you are.
And even then she’s still going to know, she just won’t care.
For some reason this always seems to be a big deal to guys.
They always think that there is a magic trick that they can do
That is going to trick a woman into thinking that they know
What they’re doing… sorry, women aren’t that stupid..
We are forgiving sometimes though. Just relax,, it's only sex..

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curious111973

25-Apr-06 03:55

What ccups said!

Just DO it. The only way to get past your fears is to meet them head on...so to speak. If you finish in a metter of seconds, cuddle for a while and try again! Or while you are recovering, do something else to keep her "occupied". You'll be down there licking away and after a while you'll look down and whoa, that sumbitch is hard again and ready to go!

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25-Apr-06 19:33

Hey, I'd love to hear your story. I'll even share some ahemm, mishaps myself if you want.

If you end up shaking like a leaf when you're getting ready for it, join the club. I was nervous as hell every time I was getting down to it with someone new and for ages with anyone steady. Bad experiences teach us.

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25-Apr-06 19:58

I think the key phrase here is "rushed into it". Just about every guy is nervous the first few times. When I did "it" for the first time, I had already fooled around a lot with girls and had almost done it with this lady a few days before. So it was like a natural progression from kissing and feeling up to actual penetration and intercourse, and I was still nervous as hell. Dont worry so much. Afterwards you always laugh about it.

SD

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curious111973

25-Apr-06 21:41

Oh yeah....I forgot to tell you my embarassing story in my post. My first time lasted a minute....probably even less! It got better the next time though. Ya gotta practice to get good at it!

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JohnieG

26-Apr-06 04:23

My first time I just fucked her all night in all the positions I an her knew, but just couldn't cum... And she wasn't ugly at all. The second time I came after about 30 seconds...

, that was a bit embarassing...

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Thanks

26-Apr-06 20:37

Thanks for all the advice, I know everyone's nervous the first time, it's just that now I'm 23!

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26-Apr-06 20:39

My boyfriend was 22 when he had his very first decent kiss! (which came from me

)
23 is still a very normal age.

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Kpooh

23 year old virgin needs advice

26-Apr-06 20:50

GET LAID!!!

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