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feisty_lulu_au

would you?????????????

13-Apr-06 03:38

i just was woundering how people felt about this subject with or with out partners.

would you ever let your partner control life? and why!

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stuntriderau

13-Apr-06 04:37

to an extent you, but NEVER totaly

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FoolsJoe

13-Apr-06 12:41

For love i'd drop everything in an instance, aslong as I wasn't asked to.

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13-Apr-06 12:50

NO FUCKING WAY

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Kpooh

13-Apr-06 13:48

I have been in that situation more times than I care to recall, it sucks & it cant be called 'life'.

However I do prefer when my partner makes most of the decisions, especially the important stuff.

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13-Apr-06 13:58

Nope, no way, no how... I am to much of a strong independant woman to allow anyone to ever control me. My husband and I are equals, neither one controls the other.

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ccups

13-Apr-06 15:15

No,, I have an Ex who tried for years. (see how well that worked)
My boyfriend now is smarter than that. He's comfortable
with us both being equal partners in our relationship.
big decisions are made together,, and whoever gets to the
little shit first takes care of it.. LOL!!

In my opinion, a lot of it has to do with mutual respect..
How can you respect someone and want to control them??

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stuntriderau

15-Apr-06 04:29

ill tell u something i was recently in a relationship were he was so controlling it was so much recening my life that i had to get out of it and now i refuse any man to control my life.

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15-Apr-06 10:01

Nope, its my life and only I control it.
Fortunately,since beoming no one has ever dared to try to control me.

Isnt it strange how real life and sex are so different?

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Scepter

15-Apr-06 12:45

Not to throw cold water on everyone's independence here, but if you are in a "live in" relationship you are controlled by that relationship even if you don't realize it.

Do you do (or not do) things because you wish to please him/her ?

I thought so. You're being controlled whether you realize it or not, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing now is it?

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would i?

15-Apr-06 17:50

I have to much respect for my spouse to control her.
So many friends of ours have sucky marriages.. one or both of them are controlling.
Every time my wife visits with her friends or sisters.. for a whole day... without me.. she comes home so unbelievably happy.. telling me.. "donna's husband called her three or four times.. wondering when she was coming home.. and for various other reasons".. or "I am so very very happy that you believe in me and trust me enough to go out and have a great time without you.. knowing i'll be coming home to you".
With respect,comes freedom, and brings about trust. with honesty, trust and respect.. come a more fruitful relationship and a much deeper love. and that in turn brings about much more enthralling sex as well.
I watched my father treat his wives with such utter despiteful behaviour that I swore I'd never ever treat a girlfriend nor lover or wife with anything close to what he did. Hopefully, something will hit him in the ass one day and knock the breath out of him. Maybe then he'll understand... One can only pray and wish.

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marcus knight

19-Apr-06 11:20

very well said i wouldnt have said it better myself.

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19-Apr-06 13:50

I dont like to be controlled & i dont like to control someone I love.

but I can now understand why ppl do it.
I didnt control my now ex at all, I wanted her to be free & do what she wants, as long as she was faithfull, but that ended up biting me in the arse & she cheated on me, so who knows, maybe the ppl that control there partners are right.

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feisty_lulu_au

24-Apr-06 14:20

ill tell u that i belive that a relatinship works better when both parnter are equal in the relationships as long as u both are faithful to each other and that u both agree each issue.cos otherwise the realtionship doesnt work at all.

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