trypticsoy said: As much as I’d love it my wife has no interest and refuses to do it (unfortunately when it comes to sex she is completely vanilla, unlike me).
Had a much more adventurous girlfriend when I was younger and she was ready and willing. I think we both got something out of it. For her I think she enjoyed the role reversal, being more of the dominant one for a while, being the one penetrating instead of being penetrated, fucking me instead of me fucking her.
And of course it resulted in my ass getting a good pounding so there was my obvious benefit. Sometimes I would get on all fours while she took me from behind but my favorite was laying on my back, legs spread and in the air, while she mounted me and pounded me hard. I liked this position better because I could see her face as she fucked me.
I had a wife who was a BJ queen - OH GAWD she was good about sucking my cock, and wanted it often. She also got a tiny bit frisky with my back yard a time or two; I didn't know how to react and sure with I had recognized it for what it was.
There's no doubt in my mind that if we stayed married, things would have probably progressed and I would have been the beneficiary of some even better sex than we had. She was a perfect slut/whore when it came to that. She adamantly refused to consider anal - she told me that right from the start. But that was doing her - she never mentioned doing me. And, in my then naivete, I didn't sexplore/sexploit that at the time. Now I regret that I didn't. For sexual reasons...I miss her like crazy.
My now wife just isn't into it. I've begged and pleaded. I've gotten her to give it a try. And I've gotten ONE good fuck out of it - one time out of about four or five attempts over more than five years.