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Blog Title: Thinking.....
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10-Feb-16 23:05:38
I know I haven't been around much and we haven't talked. I've been living my own personal hell and I'm sorry. You know we love you and want you to feel better. Only you know what's right for you, so from me.... Hugs and if you want to talk, you know where to find me because you're my number one stalker. :) xo
11-Feb-16 1:24:01
honestly Angel I am not worthy of being anyone's stalker..:/ xoxo
LuLusBakery
11-Feb-16 2:27:19
You just described much of how I was feeling last month. I do not think what you are feeling is abnormal. Adult humans reflect upon their lives now and again....and sometimes changes are necessary. Me? I needed to step out of my own world a bit more. I am an introvert and have to push myself, but it helps. I bumped up some volunteering, which makes me realize I am lucky in so many ways. It feels good to be needed. I highly recommend this! Volunteers are needed so badly....find a cause you love, and go for it.

But if you really cannot dig yourself out of a gloomy hole, please go talk to someone. There are people trained to help when needed. No shame at all in saying you are depressed, and no shame in seeking help.

Take care of you - NN will be here whenever it is fun for you again.
11-Feb-16 2:42:13
Been there many times my friend :(
Take a couple deep breaths and see what tomorrow holds in store, Many times I find a new day is just about as good as a reset button ..
Remember you have many friends here
don't under estimate the bond you have here with your pervy friends and neighbors :)
Knockout_curves
11-Feb-16 5:21:42
I love you shy! And I got your back no matter what! You do what's best for you! Bc I know where to find you :p feel better sexy, I miss ya!
11-Feb-16 14:34:08
Im also in a dark place in the real world, but i feel better escaping into NN, if id be sad that younger fitter sexier sluttier girls get more votes or comments than me?? OMG this is not a popularity contest, its about SEX/LUST...and just a fact of life... we all have our ups and downs, take a break, but why delete??? If you neeeed attention, then change yourself, excersize, diet, what ever, there are a few people than dont have to work at it, the rest DO, we are of all shapes and how fab isnt that?? the im not worthy is so unsexy, i know i use it too....
amps79
11-Feb-16 14:46:20
I know we don't know each other particularly well but if it's okay I wouldn't mind having a wee chat over the next day or two. MrA
RoxanneS
11-Feb-16 22:19:48
Wise words from all here. Just adding my piece.
Apologies for any bluntness but you might be holding on to a bogus premise or two. I don't have time to couch it all in comforting tones so I'm just going to list what I've managed to learn this past decade. Participating here these past four years has been quite the journey and helped me rid myself of 99% of my body issues (and no joke, they were debilitating. Not-stepping-out-of-the-house debilitating.)

-Looks don't equal happiness.

-Other people's bodies have nothing to do with yours. Stop comparing. That's just self flagellation. You have one body and it's your responsibility to care for it. How it looks is primarily dictated by your genes. There will always be genetically gifted people in this world. So what? Doesn't make them worthier human beings.

-Attractiveness has to do with more than looks.

-Your life, your choices.

As Lulu said, there is no shame in seeking help when we no longer feel ourselves or are constantly unhappy. A negative state of mind can be improved.

Keep taking care. You matter. There is no other you in the world. That's significant even if you might not believe it at this moment.
11-Feb-16 22:33:46
you have all the signs of being depressed, been there love, go to the doctors tell him how you feel they can also offer counselling, even talking to friends my help, also people say exercise if good for depression, some one I know goes on advice from her GP, good luck love , I'm always about if you need a chat
MieleGattina
12-Feb-16 1:19:25
There is nothing I can add, except I adore you, and I will miss you like crazy if you go <3 I need my birthday buddy around here. That said, I do understand if you have to go.
thatwilldome
12-Feb-16 12:05:37
Hi buddy. Great advice from everyone here. We all have our own battles to fight. It sure sounds like you need to talk to someone - and quick - before you get any worse. God knows my personal problems are well known around here. Only Monday I got half way to work and floods of tears overcame me. We have a free counselling service at work. You know what I did, I phoned the number and talked, cried, talked, cried to a counsellor for almost an hour. Please see someone to help you. I am very glad I did.
LuLusBakery
22-Feb-16 15:15:17
Was thinking about you today, stopping by to see if you are feeling better. I hope you are.
2-Mar-16 8:10:28
Youre amazing and my favorite person here, always have been. I won't go into it all here in this comment but I know how you feel and what you refer to but it isn't a slight on you. All people of all types need love and encouragement. You might think they look good but I'm their mind they don't know that. Stop analyzing too much. I know I'm guilty of it too. Maybe not delete totally but just remove yourself. You are so fun and happy normally and you have some big stressors in your life. I know where to find you babes and I'll be in touch soon. xo Until then know you have a big loving heart that has uplifted so many people here including me.