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Blog Title:	Will There Be an Ever After?

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LordViking	23-Oct-11 13:47:46 I feel like making a ton of comments, but i think ill stick to a short one at first... Everything can be fixed. A relationship is a two-way thing, if it is gonna last. You do actually have feelings and needs too. She might simply not "understand" or think this is important for you. My suggestion would be councelling to get up a line of communication about the subject. Im sure she loves you, and seemingly wants to spend her life with you.

LordViking	23-Oct-11 13:49:06 Oh.. and "are you a sex addict?" uh.. "yes, living with something as sexy as you, makes it hard for me as man not to feel aroused ;)"

seshat	23-Oct-11 13:54:03 I agree with LordViking with regards to communication. If I could only practice what I preach... But you remind me partly of myself and partly of my boyfriend... I'm the one not 'giving out', for all sorts of reasons, all of which I have told him except the biggest reason... But at the same time, as you said "just about everything outside of sex is awesome". So there is everything to 'fight' for, to make it work completely.

LordViking	23-Oct-11 13:54:44 As i mentioned in the statuses.. you dont seem to be here for a bad reason. You seem honest, funny and to be exploring your dilemmas. To be honest, in ways i think she should have read this. Might be hard in the start, but honesty always is the right way to go. And somehow its directly to the point. You want her, not someone else. You want her to want you too.

LordViking	23-Oct-11 13:57:28 seshat, yes, actually finding someone you can LIVE with.. i mean, eat, dine, have fun, laugh with.. then you have already "done good".. There are millions that can fuck, but not live togheter. You need communication to figure out whats in the way. And then you need to bring back sexy to the relationship. Make her feel sexy. Adding sexual undertones. I think roleplaying is a great way of spicing things up.

BranMuffin5	23-Oct-11 14:16:26 Oh trust me, if you heard the way she asked if I was a sex addict, a witty comeback would not be a good thing. Plus I was just too crushed at the time. I used to be accused all the time of not communicating with her about my feelings, and now I'm a pretty open book and now SHE is the one that doesn't talk to me. Kind of shuts me back down. And yes, I don't want to be with someone else. Unless our relationship in general starts to fail, I'll probably end up sticking with it until I die, even if I never have sex with her again. I just don't want our future daughter to bring friends over 18 years from now and I just sit there hitting on them all, trying to screw one of them.

LordViking	23-Oct-11 17:27:58 sigh if she only knew ... :)

purr_tato	23-Oct-11 21:14:12 tell her everything, every thought and feeling it will hurt her to start as she doesnt know but you are husband and wife, for better and for worse and love needs kissing and hugging and yes love making or it dies love her but love yourself too it is partnership give and take BOTH WAYS