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Blog Title:	It looks like my friend's list is going to become non existent

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Mrs.Ohio Lullabies	5-May-11 21:44:53 oi..I gotta go see what ya mean.. and omggg pleasee dont delete me I only go by my friends list when I read blogs :)

NoSecrets	5-May-11 21:47:54 http://prem.newbienudes.com/forum/default.asp?topicID=92822 Sorry hon but I'm VERY upset right now.

dilligafff	5-May-11 21:56:59 Very nicely put NoSecrets. There HAS to be an opt out.

chargingram	5-May-11 23:20:37 Please tell me this ain't true

foxilady	6-May-11 0:46:00 I agree there should be an opt out xxx

Shotglass	6-May-11 1:17:26 I know how you feel!! Its a curse being as sexy as we are!!

showthatass	6-May-11 1:25:14 Oh man. What in the world did I miss?

Renaldo_Moon	7-May-11 9:29:59 I dunno what to do about this BS myself.Last night i was thinking of deleting my account.Why should i have to delete friends??Why should i have to stop commenting on my friends pics??

NN	7-May-11 12:04:09 Hi, As I have said sooooo many times, we are looking at ways to overcome concerns such as that you voice. Pleas also understand everything you post on NN in comments, blogs, status is Public anyway! I am listening and we will make mods to the system.

LordViking	7-May-11 12:08:16 I have a policy of not saying or commenting things i can't back up or stand for.

NoSecrets	7-May-11 12:15:15 Guess I'm not understanding your comment LV sorry.

LordViking	7-May-11 12:28:44 Hmm, first off, didnt mean to offend or say that you don't stand for what you say. I tried to say that i dont say a comment on a picture that i dont want anyone to know about. My public comments are for the whole world. When i comment on pics, its just an opinion of what i see. If i see sexy, i say sexy. Kitty could get jealous, but knows i think so much more of her than random comments on other pics.

NoSecrets	7-May-11 12:35:23 LV Understood but for me this has much more to it then pic comments.

NoSecrets	7-May-11 12:36:18 NN yes I UNDERSTAND everything I post on NN in comments, blogs, status is Public anyway but it wasn't on a list posted to my entire friend's list before! BIG DIFFERENCE! I can see by your comments that we aren't getting an opt out option. This exposure was never part of my membership agreement. My friend's list will be gone shortly, and my membership may be soon following.

NN	7-May-11 12:46:29 A) one of the main reasons people post pics on NN is for exposure! So not sure what ur saying there. B) I have not said we won't do some form of opt out, but we are making sure we give the best solution and not jumping to conclusions. It's only been what 2 days now. I'd also like to comment that when I look at friends notifications, I see sooo many posts of all types in there. What makes you feel your posts will somehow stand out anymore in there than they will in the other parts of the site? It's not like there is a "only show activity from NoSecrets" option in there. As I keep saying over and over I am really working hard on this and making sure I understand the issues, but I do also think your concerns being so great that you feel you might leave the site puts you at the very extreme end of those at have concerns. Let me say 1 more time. I HAVE NOT said there will be no changes to the system, and one of these may well be in relation to some options around what activities of yours are shown in notifications.

NoSecrets	7-May-11 13:10:06 A. There is all kinds of exposure, some wanted, some not so much. B. "I'd also like to comment that when I look at friends notifications, I see sooo many posts of all types in there. What makes you feel your posts will somehow stand out anymore in there than they will in the other parts of the site? It's not like there is a "only show activity from NoSecrets" option in there. Would you really like me to post how I can manipulate that in seconds here? Somehow I don't think that'd be a very good idea. "As I keep saying over and over I am really working hard on this and making sure I understand the issues, but I do also think your concerns being so great that you feel you might leave the site puts you at the very extreme end of those at have concerns" You are right. I am extremely concerned! I am extremely concerned about my privacy! So much so that yes I will delete my life members account if need be.

~Skye~	8-May-11 3:17:27 I agree with all yu have said, I could very well end up with a couple friends on my list, How much exposure or positive feedback for NN is that. But I am not into sharing what I say to one with all. Sure hope NN gets this straightened out REALLY soon. I have already avoided making comments on new photos. Either opt out function or delete friends notifications altogether.

NoSecrets	11-May-11 9:17:22 I'm just gonna address a few things here cuz I don't want to update my blog with this BS. Those who are gossipping, get a life! No my husband didn't catch me doing anything wrong.No I don't leave "troll" comments for anyone, and no I haven't said or done anything here that I'm ashamed of! This was never about pic commments per se for me. It has always been more about blogs and my fellow blogger friends. We regular old time bloggers are a pretty close knit community, and we tend to blog about some very intimate things, I didn't feel right about exposing my friend's blog that maybe talks about their sick kid, or any other personal problem to the guys I talk anal sex with! That's pretty much it in a nut shell. It wasn't anything sinister. We just all tend to "converge" in different places here, and not all co-mingling is welcome. That and the fact that you could look up an entire person's history here all the way back to the beginning of the site. Some of us have been here along time, that's an aweful lot of exposure! Think about every innocent comment you have left here giving minor details about your life, now imagine doing that for 7 years and having it all exposed at once. However NN fixed the history thing (again a big THANK YOU) And is working on the other So I can accept that. Now I am going on an NN vacation cuz frankly I need a break! I will reinstate my friend's list but I am not sure if I am going to return to blogging/commenting here, or not. Time will tell. C-ya

imalilhothead	11-May-11 13:36:43 I completely agree here. I hate that there is that much freedom of information allowed to everyone on your list. Yeah most of the people I don't care but some I do and unless the opt out is a choice, I will never ever pay for premium on this site and as some people on my list have premium and will have the option to track whatthefuckever I do or say, I will also be deleting most of the people on my list. This change should NEVER have been implemented before all the tweaks were done.

Mrs.Ohio Lullabies	12-May-11 20:12:57 really a simple..so n so commented on your pic..or blog or forum post would have been enough..life is to busy..I dont really care if joe blow became friends with pretty pie..I agree its to much information..

Spike_Spiegel	15-May-11 10:55:46 It looks like the concerns of a small group won out lol.....Small group,pigs arse!!! NN just doesn't like to admit that he is wrong..lmao

dilligafff	17-May-11 14:05:01 Let's hear it for the little people lol! You'd have thought that even a small, vociferous group would have been important to NN, particularly when times are hard .....

NN	25-May-11 12:10:55 Small groups are important and hence I am listening! Pic comments can now be opted out from (as of may 16)

NoSecrets	9-Jun-11 12:20:19 Good! Now nearly a month later (it's now June 9th) and all we need is to be able to control our privacy with blog and status comments too, and we'll be on to something ;)