hey ya'll and welcome to babys bitch blog...lol

after the day i had yesterday im seriously considering running away. problem is i dont have enough gas or money to get out of Radiator Springs. Sir had a bad day, and as they say, "it rolls downhill". sir had his head up his ass, my kiddo is 10 & i swear she has PMS. im wondering if its safe to give her midol. my monster in law picked a fight with Sir. i suggested he tell her to f'off and she heard me...o'well. meanwhile, i realized i forgot a very special friends bday. so sir wasnt the only one with his head up his ass.

ah lets see the negatives of the past few months far outweigh the positives. a few postives:

we met a couple about a year ago that weve become good friends with. we always have a blast whether were just hanging out or making the bed rock. guess i should clarify that, weve had sex with our spouses but we havent accomplished a full swap and everyone is cool with it. if it happens thats great, if not thats ok too, sex is just a bonus. id luv to post some pics of us but unfortunately shes extremely camera shy.

we got away last weekend for one of sirs pool tourney. he plays in a statewide pool players association. categories are divided by skill from beginner to master. each division has a number of levels. Masters, A's, B's, and C's. for example, Sir is a Master 8. Masters division goes to a 10. im C4 lol. Sir just likes to like to watch me bend a stretch over the table anyway...hehehe. the tourneys are handicapped and they have an eightball season and a nineball season. the state nineball tourney was last saturday. Sir didnt do as well as he'd hoped but considering the stats, in my opinion, he can still hold his own. theyres 25 Master players. Sir came in 7th. theyres approximately 250 total players. So to be ranked in the top ten isnt bad was nice to get away from it all for a couple of nights. we didnt have a whole lot of money to spend but it really didnt matter to me. i was just happy to be out of mommy mode and out of the house for a while.

im having a hard time thinking of any other positives lately.

the homeschool thing is a lot of work. it appears to be paying off but we will see when she's tested. as of right now were not sure if shes going back into public school for the next term. weve checked into private schools and theyre extremely expensive.

i noticed tuesday that my fridge didnt seem to be as cold as it should be. everything in it appeared to be ok so i turned the thermostat up a notch. welll, i noticed early wednesday morning that again, it didnt quite seem right. things have been extremely busy with family, business, Sirs day-job, etc. by the time he and i get to catch up and talk its 10pm wednesday nite. he checks it out and says, O shit... he worked on it until about 2 am thursday morning. he got off early thursday afternoon, got the part and had it fixed by around 4pm. most people probably would have just bought another fridge but we cant do that right now.

meanwhile, the critters that we kept hearing last january were probably a mouse infestation. the little boogers have wiggled theyre way into our house and mainly our kitchen. im a neat freak, theyres nothing for the nasty things to eat. our foods kept in containers that are sealed. the only thing they could possibly get into was the dog food and we sealed it up too...lol. Sir put bait out. little bastards ate all of the bait and we found 3 that had gone on to mouse heaven. (the kiddo had a major meltdown about the poor dead mouse. she and daddy had to have a funeral for the first one <i didnt know if i should laugh or cry at that. my 6'2 Sir having a mouse funeral in the rain for his little lady> so we had to explain the difference between the mice in the store and the ones in our house. so the mouses have gone to mouse heaven where they can eat and make babies all they want to... whew:/)one died somewhere near our tv room and the stench made me physically sick. it had to be in a wall cuz we couldnt get to it. i simmered some old fashioned potpourii on the stove, put out charcoal, and little pots of coffee grounds everywhere. Sir bought some old fashioned traps and we got three that way. i was positive there was a nest behind the fridge and maybe be the stove but we didnt find a nest. we did find another dead one behind the fridge tho...eww... needless to say weve been doing some major spring cleaning.

and...again... somewhere along the way... my cell fon died. the one my monster in law had been so charitable to give to me. it was a blackberry pearl and the pearl was messed up. Sir fiddled with it a few times until it finally gave out completely. now, since my first cell died some months ago i learned to put my info on the card "thingee". when the thing died the tech had to hack into it to do his thing. the thing hadnt saved any of my info other than a few pics and vids. fortunately they were clean ones...lmao. so i lost all my names, numbers, and info again UGH!

Sirs working as much as ever between his day-job and the business. between 2pm thursday and 12am friday he got over 20 calls from the plant. he finally gave up and went out there. atleast they havent called today, yet, i should knock on wood.

i broke my little toe last month and its still swollen and sore. (im a clutz, shh dont tell anyone, and i didnt have high heels or wheels on my feet lmao) it hurts and not in the good way...lol i wont be putting any wheels on my feet for a few more weeks.

the kiddo turns 11 next month. weve got one more present to get and were done. we dont go all out for bdays and holidays. Sir and i both have large extended families so she gets more stuff than she knows what to do with. its amazing just how much stuff you can accumulate in a year. in fact, thats part of the spring cleaning weve been doing. shes old enough to do her part so we put her to work. im proud to say her donate pile is larger than the trash and keep piles. some little girls will be very happy

well thanks for reading the short novel ive typed here. sirs getting pissy becuase im still logged on. if your one of the few, special friends, send me a text so i can have your info again.

to my very special friend, i cant apologize enough. im so sorry your bday went by without atleast a happy bday text or msg. hugs n kisses to ya.

later yall

hey yall,

its been awhile, as usuall...lol. i havent been able to get on much. i havent been into chat in... omg... i cant remember...

we finally got the land-line rewired and working. i really didnt mind it not ringing tho. the internet has been up and down. due to wiring and budget issues. Sir rewired it, again, and set up some traps for the critters (it looks like theres a family of squirles, coons, or ??? that has made themselves very comfortable between the floor and the subfloor, not sure if thats the right term, of our house. the only way you can get to it is to crawl under the house and find one of the very large holes they have made in it for their coming and going.)

sometime along the way my cell phone died. they retired my old number and i now have my monster in laws old fon and her old number. any other time id luv to get unplugged and get lost lol but weve had alot of stuff going on.

meanwhile my kiddo has had some serious issues. we ended up having to take her out of public school. shes doing a homeschool program now and the plan is to re-enroll in public school for the next fall term. the homeschool program is internet based so shes most often on the pc during the day.

Sir has been busier than usuall with his work and our business. i hope with the new training and responsiblities they have given him that they (the powers that Be at his day-job) give him a pay raise too. it would be nice, but ya know how that can go. business is slow and hasnt picked up any. the shoe-string of a budget we have continues to get shorter and shorter.

as you can see if youve peeked at my pics we havent taken any new ones in almost a year. we keep hoping we will have the time and energy but it hasnt happened.

our "babysitters" havent been able to watch the kiddo so we havent had much alone time to do much of anything.

enough bitchin and blah blah blah from me. hope all my buddies are doing well.

giggles n grins

hey yall,

no... i didnt fall of the face of the earth but sometimes i wish i had lol.

my pc crashed in august. due to budget issues we werent able to get if fixed until recently, very recently.

meanwhile, some pesky critters got under the house and ate a bunch of wires/cables. they ate thru the one that lets me connect to the internet... damn things!

im connected thru hubbys droid right now. hubby and our daughter have been fighting the flu for the past week so ive got no idea when he will get the chance to re-wire everything.

i cant get online for long, or even everyday. i do miss my buddies. i miss the pervin, the chattin, the well... you know...hehehe.

i hope everyone is doing ok. take care and i hope to perv and chat with you soon!

giggles n grins

baby

hello everyone,

again, i thought i'd update this thing. it's been a while and we've been as busy as ever. hubby's been busy with work at his regular job, our business has slowed to a crawl which is normal at this time of year but it doesn't help the budget any, our kiddo is dying of boredom. unfortunately, down here there isn't much for the kiddo to do. there's about 3 more weeks until school starts up again.

it's been a while since we've taken any pics. we're either too busy or too tired to get around to it. however, i do have a friend that would like to do a "photo shoot". were going to give it a try as soon as we can get our schedules worked out. i'm looking forward to it. i've seen some of his work and he's taken some good pics. looks like fun too...hehe

we've made plans to go camping the last weekend of this month and i'm looking so forward to it. sunning on a floatie, watching the kiddo play, and daydreaming ... mmmhmmm. hot-dogs and marshmallows cooked over the fire... not together, but you know what i mean yummy!

we were able to give away 5 of the puppies. we still have two of the females and would love to find them a good home. there about 4 months old now. looks like we'll have to get them fixed first and that's kinda expensive. were just praying we can do it before they go into their first heat. ugh!

i hope all of my NN friends are doing well. i miss you and hope to get back to chatting and emailing once school starts up again.

later ya'll,

xxxooo

hello everyone,

its been a few months so i thought id update this thing. we have been so busy with, "life in general" that i have not been online at all. if i did get on, i checked messages, and signed out. most days i ended up passing out with the kiddo...lol. weve had doctor appointments, parent teacher conferences, a science fair project, and to top it all off our outside dog had 7 puppies this past sunday.

my birthday came and went. it was a great one this year. much better than i had hoped for Sir and i went and met a couple that we swap with now and then. Sir took us all out for dinner and drinks then we went back to their house. we played and talked till the wee hours of the next morning. Sir did take a few pics but i dont want to share any without getting their permission first. some of the shots show my lady friends face, so we will see...

i have to get in gear so i need to go. hope this message finds all of my nn friends well. take care and i miss you!

hello everyone,

well part of my family came to our house for christmas. 12 people in our little house. and three dogs...lol. was good to see them, but also good to see them go...hehe.

i slept most of this morning. recovering from the extra work, stress, etc. a nice long hot bath and a glass of wine sound really good right now.

the kiddo loved her christmas. money was tight this year but we managed to make it a special one. couldnt of done it without the help of some very good friends. you know who you are... and we cannot express how thankful we are.

as far as having any adult time or adventures we have not had the chance. i am long overdue to play with a female. in fact, id say i am in withdrawals.

we took the kiddo to see the new chipmonk movie. it was cute but we agreed the first one was better. Sir and i went to see Sherlock which was good. good action, good effects, interesting story, and a little humor. curious to see if they will make another. wed still like to go see avatar. maybe well get to do that this week.

Sir and i had the night alone last night, but we were so tired we watched tv for about an hour and passed out...lol.

hope everyone had a good christmas. new years is coming up. we dont have any plans as of right now. i havent been in chat much lately because of being so busy. i do hope to visit chat soon.

happy holidays,

baby

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