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Wednesday, February 11, 2015, 6:11:36 PM- Shitty couple of weeks

Well, a few weeks ago, I was hired for a 'real job' (I am used to working for myself or for others with minimal supervision) and I thought it would be a pretty good fit but it has caused way too much stress for me and my plan at this point is to give my 2 weeks notice this Friday. Adding to the stress is that a week and a half ago my waterbed sprung a leak and now we are sleeping on a conventional mattress for the first time in about 25 years. The Wife and I did have a brief fuck in the new bed a few days after we got it, but nothing to brag about, it still feels like I have to convince her to do anything, not like she has any real desire to have sex.
Well, life goes on ...

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Wednesday, February 4, 2015, 7:56:17 PM- nipples poking out

So I am part of a business networking group and there is one member in my group that I am not too fond of. Very professional lady, just rubs me the wrong way and after knowing her for about 10 years, I have found her to be a bit insincere at times. she is one woman who I have never looked at in a sexual manner. Last week at our meeting, I looked over and realized that her nipples were sticking out like eraser points (large ones). A bit surprising that she did not wear a thicker bra or something as professional as she is, but WOW what large and pointy nipples.
Still not seeing her in a sexual way.

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Monday, January 19, 2015, 12:21:45 PM- somewhat surprised

Saturday afternoon, The Wife was doing laundry and I made sure to put mine away as fast as she could get it out of the dryer in the hope that she would not object to me joining her in bed. Bedtime comes around and we do sleep together (really - sleep). I woke up early in the morning as usual and went upstairs to shower, came down and made coffee then went back to the bedroom and got back in bed. After a bit she began to wake up and indicated that she was feeling a bit frisky. Once she went to the bathroom, we began kissing (a bit, but not as much as I would like) and I began fingering her then she got her bullet vibe to play with me as I went to eat her. As I was eating her, I began to use my thumb to finger her which seems to work pretty well with her and she got more vigorous with her jerking of me which got me cumming quickly so I got a bit more aggressive with my lips and thumb and ate her to what appeared to be a pretty powerful orgasm as she ended up pushing me away. While I would have preferred to cum IN her instead of on her, it was a pretty good time.

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Tuesday, January 6, 2015, 1:10:29 PM- update

So, as usual, I was making suggestions toward sex throughout the day on Friday especially when The Wife was walking around naked (or partially so) a few times. She sort of said later but that is usually her way of blowing me off so I did not take any notice. Evening came and I decided to not drive for UBER as I was tired anyway. At the usual time (about 10:45) we turned off the tv and headed to bed, I suggested that I sleep with her and she said yes with more enthusiasm than I expected. We got in bed and she immediately cuddled up to me which, of course, got me excited but then she went to sleep and I was left with a 'kickstand'. Well Sh*t! My thought was to get out of bet and go upstairs, but she had draped herself over me and every time I moved she would ask me to not leave. Additionally, I really was tired and just wanted to sleep. Well, when I got up in the morning, I got out of bed and went to exercise - ran on the treadmill for a bit more than 30 minutes - when I was done I went to get my clothes so I could shower and she was asking me to come back to bed. I told her that I needed to shower and would return which I did. When I got back inn bed, she once again draped herself on me and we both started to stroke one another. Finally I got tired of the messing around and asked her to take off her shirt so I could more easily reach her tits which she, surprisingly, did. She then got out her bullet and played with my dick while I played with her tits and fingered her. After maybe 10 or 15 minutes of this she asked me to get the lube so I could fuck her which I did. problem was that I did not get to eat her and she had got me so worked up with her stroking that once I started fucking her I could not last. It almost seems that she wants me to cum quickly when we fuck but I really want to last longer because it does feel good.
Oh, well, as I said, something is better than nothing and I am now back to sleeping in 'my' room upstairs.
Luckily, The Ex's kid is back i school as of today so perhaps we will get to fuck sooner rather than later.

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Monday, January 5, 2015, 5:23:56 AM- Drought has ended

More to come tomorrow, but the 14 week drought with The Wife ended on this past Saturday. Not very memorable, but it was 'something' I will try to fill in the blanks tomorrow

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Wednesday, December 31, 2014, 1:06:20 PM- Good by and Good Riddance to 2014

Well I do not think I have ever been so glad for a year to end! Too many folks dying around me and too many personal problems. I am So ready to move on in 2015.

It does look like I will finish out the year without sex (other than solo) so that will make 14 weeks since The Wife and I have fucked and about 4 or 5 since The Ex and I fucked. I strongly suspect that The Ex and I will fuck soon after the new year once her kid is back in school but I have no idea when The Wife and I will begin fucking again. As I said in my previous blog, I am finally really ready to confront her and make some decisions about moving forward.

My plan is to drive for UBER today and then act in my mystery dinner tonight followed by driving for UBER again since the best money is driving the drunks late at night.

I hope everyone has a safe and fun NYE and please remember not to drive impaired! If you have been drinking (or anything else) call UBER / LYFT / cab service.

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Monday, December 29, 2014, 5:47:42 AM- Feeling rather depressed

This is the first holiday season without my dad and I am a bit worried about my mom, but we live too far apart to sees act other regularly (although we do talk a few times a week - it is not the same as speaking with my dad) and the lack of sex is just frustrating. I have decided to have a serious sit down with The Wife after the new year as I do not want to go another year like this. I guess I can see a couple of possible endings for this discussion ...
1 - She agrees that we have a problem and wants to solve it in some way proactively to re-start OUR sex life

2 - She admits that she does not want sex any more and agrees that I can have a 'girlfriend' (Highly unlikely I would think)

3 - We agree to officially separate / divorce (unlikely for her to agree to)

4 - Hmmmm Maybe there are other options that I am not thinking about, and I am sure there are many.

I hope everyone has a good New Year, if I do not check in before then.
Stay Safe and Stay Sexxy!

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Thursday, December 25, 2014, 1:05:11 PM- Well, Merry Christmas Everyone

It would seem that the only one coming around here is Santa. Mentioned a few times to The Wife yesterday that sex would be nice especially for the holiday and she pretty much ignored me. The Ex is wanting to fuck, but cannot get away from the kid so that is out until after the new year and kids are back in school. Meanwhile, I am in 'my' room with my NN friends.
Going to a christmas day pancake breakfast with the Grandkids and then to take a second look at a potential food truck.
Hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas Day with family and friends. (oh, and if any ladies are near me, I would love to make your holiday more fun)

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Saturday, December 20, 2014, 12:53:16 PM- long time

So it has now been almost 12 weeks since The Wife and I had sex and it was 6 weeks the last 'break'. Not really expecting anything before the end of the year, but I certainly would not turn it down. Been looking on CL but, honestly, that makes me quite nervous - diseases and crazy ladies and all that.

Last night I asked The Wife what she wanted for dinner and her response was 'what do you want' I responded that her laying on the bed naked would be good for me and she just laughed and said that is not dinner. My response was that it would be good enough as dinner for me! She said 'well, let me color my hair and the we can do that'. Needless to say, it did not happen. Next thing I know, she is wrapping holiday gifts and I heat up her leftovers and a bowl of soup for myself. We watched TV for a while and then went to bed - separately -. She never did color her hair.

Oh well, I hope everyone has a happy CHristmas / Hanukah / Kwanza / Whatever it is you celebrate. We have Hanukah dinner with family (about 20 total) tonight and I have a couple of catering gigs today so it will be busy.

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Tuesday, December 16, 2014, 5:12:33 AM- Passive Agressive

Well, it dawned on me over the weekend that The Wife is being quite passive aggressive about not having sex. She makes sure that what was formerly 'my' side of the bed pretty much always has 'stuff' on it so that even if I wanted to sleep with her, there is no place for me. I am not sure, actually do not think, that it is purposeful, but it is passive aggressive nonetheless. We are now going on 4 months since we last had sex and that is pretty sorry. I am somewhat hopeful that with her now having left her job that she will feel better and perhaps want sex but I am not getting my hopes up.

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