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Sunday, June 21, 2009, 6:05:15 PM

I got asked out today, a real kinda asked out....on a date no less!! lol, I nearly ran away, I can't remember the last time I was asked out in the "asking somebody out" sense of things. I told him I would think about it, but to be honest I will probably say no, because (okay I'm gonna admit it) I am scared of dating.....

The last few relationships I have went into have developed from friendships and I really don't know that much about this guy...

Apart from that, I don't think I have time in my life for any kind of relationship right now...things are really starting to pick up in all other areas and I think that is where I should focus my attention at the moment!!

**still undecided thought!**

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By-the-Sea	21-Jun-09 18:13:39 There is no reason you can't do both worlds if you move the pace under your control

Kensington Gore	21-Jun-09 18:15:16 I say give it a go as a night out,say yes but make sure the guy knows it's just for fun and you have NO idea if anything would go on from there. I guess just make sure the guy has no pretense of anything comming of it,you may meet a fantastic guy you may not....or it could just be a dull date. Ethier way think about it as just a night out :)

mdguy	21-Jun-09 18:18:20 Just being asked would make me over the moon. :)

Hutcheano	21-Jun-09 21:24:00 Hey... good on ya' Willow, tell him it's just for a drink only as you have too much going on at moment and that comittment is impossible. I know you'll just be honest with him anyway, that's just you. Listen..... tell him the truth.......... that you're saving yourself for me..!!! Mmmmmmmm..... now there's a hornny thought.......! X

Bigg!	22-Jun-09 11:19:41 save yourself for me, but failing that, cultivate the guy as a friend, he may turn out well x x x

juicy	22-Jun-09 11:43:48 wow just a date and everyone is talking commitment! Go out you might just have some fun.

englishmaninnewyork	22-Jun-09 12:24:13 Question: is he nice? do you fancy him? Do you have anything to loose? if the answer is yes yes no then go for it girl.xx

Sallinque	23-Jun-09 17:07:17 If he turns up with a ring, run away. Otherwise, just enjoy yourself. You might not make yourself a new partner, and you might make yourself a really good friend. Have fun, and don't forget to tell someone where you're going, who you're seeing and what time you'll be home ;) x

Seeker20060001	25-Jun-09 0:03:06 Yeah... I agree- go out and have a good time. Just tell the guy you're not up for a serious relationship right now! If you turn it down based on free time only, you'll never go out!

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