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seshat's blog post - Prejudice

Tuesday, July 2, 2013, 3:30:54 PM
To answer a question, no, the party was not worth the pain of wearing high heels. I can think of few things that would be worth that kind of pain tongue

On a side note, some people's prejudice really angers me. At the party, there were several colleagues, from a small band of friend-co-workers who often do things together.

One of those colleagues proceeded to lecture me about how I should train for my hiking holidays to be able to keep up with BF. Meddlesome, but fine. But then she goes, in the most condescending tone, "I mean, do you even get any exercise during the year?" Apparently in her mind, fat people don't exercise. I felt like slapping her.

She's the same person who, a while ago, was incredibly surprised when I told her I loved vegetables, including Brussels sprouts. "oh really, you didn't seem like the type." Because the 'type' to like vegetables = skinny? Made my blood boil, and she doesn't even realise it...

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Whispermyname
2-Jul-13 21:25:00
Don't ya love those judgemental..I'm so bloody perfect paople. I swear half of them haven't got any mirrors in their houses.
smiile
3-Jul-13 0:57:39
Next time, look at her straight in the eyes and say : "what drives you to speak like this, if not your own insecurity" ?

Then watch her blink in acknowledgement before her gaze fails to hold yours.
Safire13
3-Jul-13 2:41:47
just too angry for words