sammiealice's blog post - just some weekend wanderings

over the past several weeks, I have had two of my dearest girl friends have considered leaving because of the way people have treated them here. listening to their concerns absolutes sickens me that that some people could be so mean and so inconsiderate of others feelings. and now i open my friends list, worried that a friend will have left. as we approach the new year, i decided to express my feeling.
nn is a community and just as any community, its members have deep feelings and what they share has a deep meaning to them---it could be pic, or vids, blogs or chatting, but they open their souls to share with others. what they share is important to them and deserves respect and, sometimes, compassion.
everyone comes here with different needs but I think most come here as open individuals with needs to be filled—some sexual, some emotional and some artistic and very open to being wounded by others. some try and pump themselves up by being mean to others—that is not the way a health community behaves. if i think i have hurt someone, said something unkind, i am mordified.
and i hate it when people call others “fake” or “frauds”. i really could care less, how many guys have nothing but pics of girls—but no one says a word----and i worry about the ex girl friend who let him take a pic of her and now her naked body and face is all over the internet (which is wrong). i really don’t care what they post as long as they do not take pictures or prose of another and claim it as theirs or use it to hurt someone—that is fraud.
i view here as a fantasy world—a place I can come and not be worried by my 58 year old body, where I can chat with men and women, and if we hit it off, chat and rub and----you know—until we explode in glorious cum, so wet and hot i remember what is like before children and work and depression and all of the problems of being an adult.
i also view this as a place i have made some wonderful cyber friends who i think of as really friends. what happens to them is just soooooo important to me. and when they disappear or do not log in, i really get worried. and the ones who have deleted their accounts, i wonder what they are doing and if they are safe and well.
let’s start the new year with a resolution of being kind to each other and remembering what we post and share is important to each poster and you can really deeply hurt others though you comments and votes.
xxxxxxxxx to all