oooos4all's blog post - Big age difference...

As you know by reading our profile, we are a couple, A little odd to some maybe because of our age difference. We weren't even aware of a difference until we had already fallen for each other. This brings up some ponderings we have had about this.

Why is it that when anyone sees us or is told of us as a couple, they jump to conclusions about how we could possibly be together?
Typically people beleive one of two things. There are of course variations but it usually boils down to two reasons. Neither of which is correct.

Reason one: Foolish old man. That gold diggin bitch is after his money and of course he must be paying her bills. Why else would a fine young girl want with a old broken down man like him. Kinda creepy isn't it?

Reason two: Innocent foolish girl. That old man has brainwashed that young girl into givin him sum. Made her think he cares about her and pays her rent just to have sex with a young woman. Kinda creepy isn't it?

People accept all types of couplings as normal so why would almost everyone only believe ours as unhealthy, unwholesome, unnatural or un anything? Alot of people have large age differences and are not considereed wierd. I guess there is a different way of looking at it if 10, 15, 20 or 25yrs. Let's see 15 is ok but 25 that's too much like xxxxxx(too much like doing my daddy). That's understandable as personal attraction but why jump to the negative dirty conclusion when the attraction is misunderstood. Why assume it must be about golddiggin or a dirty old man paying some innocent young girls bills to get some?

We understand some of the jealousy and bitterness because of the threat felt by some. A lot of middle aged women are convinced there is a young tramp lying in wait to steal away her man. (Take a look at your man, You may be the only one that wants him) Men on the other hand are jealous because in their fantasies a young woman wants them and fucks the shit out of them just because of the stallion they are. This is only fantasy tho and will never be acted on. The men are usually too broken to have that much selfconfidence. When another man has a much younger woman it must of no good since why else would she really want him.

It seems that a hell of alot of people are in relationships with people they don't want and are afraid of being alone. Avoiding lonelyness by being in an unhappy relationship doesn't seem like a fair trade to me. Regardless many people are not gettin any and comdemn it if someone else is.

People do like to share their misery. Any happiness anyone else finds must be evil,

We do enjoy playing it for all the laughs we can get when we see the shock on anyones face. Sure she's my daughter, we're into xxxxxx.

Truth is we fell for each other just like any others do. We like each other, love each other, make each other laugh and beleive that each other is the best lover ever. How could we be soooo lucky? We love and accept each other warts, age, stinky feet and all and never notice anything outside our world together.