Hi guys,
I enjoy my frank & honest chats with you guys & girls in the chat room & quite a lot of you want to ask me about my experiences of being shared.
Some of the common questions are, how did it happen? How did you feel about doing it? How did you find a guy? Where did you do it? Were you excited/nervous?
Many more questions too. I was also interested in the fact that a lot of you wanted to know a lot of the details of it all, the naughty one's of cause, like, did I cum? Where did he cum?
Also such tings as, what was I wearing? I enjoy chatting to you about it, but with so many questions around it, It's difficult to get it across in the chat room, so I thought the best thing to do was to react to your interest & tell you in some detail of my experiences of that first time being shared. What was going on in my head & indeed pussy, lol & what happened, so here we go.
After reading this, if anyone wants to chat further about it, you can leave comments here, catch me in the chat room, or pm me.
Hope you enjoy?
So, once Hubby had asked me, how would I feel to the idea of being shared, in other words for him to watch me with another guy.
I had to compute that.
To be honest, my first reaction was shock.
Why would he want that, I'm his wife?
You can imagine there was some disbelief on my part that he even asked me.
Don't get me wrong, I've enjoyed sex with a few partners in my time, but now I'm a married lady & I thought those wild days were behind me.
He said that some of my experiences with guys that he'd heard about,before we were married had really turned him on & that he'd love to watch me pleasure a guy.
On reflection though I did think it was brave of him to bring up the subject & honest too.
Once I'd got over my shock & confusion, I did start to think about what he had asked
Was this just a fantasy of his?
In reality, would he get jealous & flip.
I wasn't about to mess up my marriage for a bit of sex.
We started to talk about the practicalities of maybe doing this.
He started to perk up, the fact I was actually considering his request.
I did make the point to him though, that if we did go along with this, I wasn't going to hold back at all, I was there to enjoy the sex too.
He was pleased with that.
I guess in everyday life I'm quite a respectable married lady, fairly well educated, with quite a good job, albeit part time & quite well known in our community.
If we were going to do this, this had to be our secret & had to be done, out of town, away from where we live.
We agreed that Hubby would look for a guy/s online, a stranger & when he had found a suitable candidate, I'd naturally have the final say..
If this was going to work, we had to consider what each of us wanted out of it & what we were prepared to give.
Hubby said that he wanted to watch me with a guy/s & watch me pleasure him & him me.He also wanted to photograph it too.
For me, if I was going to do it, I wanted it to be fun, I naturally wanted to enjoy the sex & the excitement of enjoying a new cock, the first in over 15 years, lol
Obviously for the new guy, he has to be ok being photographed & comfortable being watched by my Hubby, so he'll be looking for reward too, in the shape of my body.
After much discussion, as we had never done this before we decided against full sex, keeping that special, just for ourselves.
So we offered oral & heavy petting.
We finally found a guy who seemed quite nice.
Not an addonis, I wasn't looking for a pretty boy, who knew it, just a mature guy, confident but not arrogant, easy to talk too. Hubby wanted quite a big cock, I was fine with that too, lol
We emailed a bit & I chatted to him on the phone, I liked his honesty too.
We agreed a social meet at a bar in another town.
We thought meeting socially first was a good idea, then if you didn't get on, after you got home you could say so & it wouldn't be so embarrassing..
We booked a hotel room in the town we went to & decided to make a w/e of it.
That whole week leading up to it, I couldn't stop thinking about it.
So, come the day of the meeting...........
We arranged to meet him in a bar at 7pm.
Would he show up?
Would he be like the pics he sent?
We walked in the bar, my heart was pounding.
What the hell was I doing, a middle aged married lady, meeting a stranger in a bar?
He was there & yes, he was as he appeared in his pics.
We said our nervous hello's & went to the bar, Hubby got some drinks & we found a table, a little away from people, the best we could.
To be honest the chat came quite easily, everyday stuff to start with.
We asked the inevitable question, whether he liked what he saw, & he said he did , that I was very nice & then turned the question on me & I said that I liked everything so far.
Nervous laughter.
He insisted on buying some drinks, I had another glass of white, which I think helped.
The talk turned to personal circumstances & of course sex, we naturally had to lowe our voices.
His name was Paul, which I already knew, he was married & his wife didn't know about his meeting with us. He told us that she had lost all interest in sex.
I wasn't proud that I was about to have another wife's man behind her back but if she wasn't giving him any?
Anyway, I'd reasoned that was for him to sort out, but I'd admired his honesty, he could easily have lied & said he was single or divorced.
We both admitted that we were a bit nervous but excited too
I was dressed quite sexily, a shortish skirt, stay ups, I sat so if he was observant, every so often, if he was looking & I'm sure he was, he'd get a flash of my panties, lol.
What a husy eh?
I guess we had been in the bar for about 90 mins when he got up to go to the loo.
As soon as he had gone, Hubby said, What do you think? I had to admit, that yes, I was interested, there was chemistry there.
hubby agreed that he seemed a nice bloke.
He then said to me, in that case, why don't we invite him back to our hotel now.
It was suddenly becoming very real.
I agreed we should, if he could make it?
My heart was pounding
He came back from the loo & Hubby said that we had been chatting & would like to invite him back to our hotel for some fun, if he could make it?
The answer was, that he could & he said, "great!"
I think back now, If I hadn't of been married & up for this naughty liaison, had I have met Paul in that bar, as a single girl, I'd have had a nice night, gone home & perhaps arranged to have seen him again.
Would I have had sex with him?
Possibly, but a number of dates down the line.
Now we were striding back to our hotel & I was about to strip off in front of a guy I barely knew with my Husband watching & approving.
What a slut! Lol
To be continued

I'd been married for about ten years & had known my Hubby five years before that. My sexual life before I'd got married had been quite varied & a lil adventurous at times. Once married though, Hubby was the man for me! After a number of years of marriage, you try things to spice up your sex life a lil. Sex outside, on the bonnet of the car, that sort of thing. Hubby has always enjoyed photography, so he asked if I'd pose for him for a few sexy photo's. I agreed that I would pose for topless & undies, nothing more. Hubby is quite persuasive, lol.He told me about this site & persuaded me to post a few naughty pics. I thought that was pretty much it, then some time later, right out the blue he asked me if I'd consider having another guy. He went on to say that he'd enjoy watching me perform. To be honest I was quite shocked & didn't really understand, but he was quite persistent? We discussed, argued a bit Before I finally agreed to explore the idea. It's not that I don't like guys or sex, I do, but I felt that my fucking around days were over, I was now a married lady with a Hubby I loved. I was also worried that it was a fantasy of his & the reality would be he'd get jealous & I didn't want to ruin our marriage over a bit of sex. He convinced me that he wouldn't be jealous, so we decided to explore the possibilities. We both agreed it had to be a stranger & it should happen on neutral ground, an hotel & finally, I had the final say! Hubby got in touch with some guys online & I picked one to meet up with socially.This was just the start of my journey. My first time I was nervous, apprehensive but very excited too!