kittenmmm's blog post - a little history

For those of you who don't know, Wolf and I met on NN. We met in the chat room and just clicked. We became very good friends and had been chatting in here and on IM for about 5 months or so when I went on a cross country trip with my son. He offered to put us up at a hotel and show us around when we got to Texas. He was the consumate southern gentleman and we had great fun seeing everything. In turn, I extended an open door to him if he wanted to see New England.
He ended up coming up about 2 or 3 months after that and showed up right about the time my previous marraige was hitting rock bottom. Despite having 15 years of ups and downs my wasband and I had reached the end of our journey as a married couple. Wolf came for his visit and got to see a few sites and listen to me sort things out.
In December of last year he offered to come up here and help out. He knew I was having a tough time financially and physically, trying to do everything here on my own. At the same time, he was somewhat stuck in a rut back home and wanted a fresh start.
Out of that friendship that we had forged, love grew. We weathered some tough times here while I was in the process of my divorce ... financial tightness, some emotional ups and downs for me, getting used to each other's habits and food likes...those types of things. But, he was always my friend..and always my son's friend ... and always a quiet and happy source in the background. He became a rock for me and when he asked me to marry him after talking to my son I knew I couldn't imagine him not here.
So, here we are today. We managed to find that elusive mix of friendship, passion and true love. I just hope and pray that everyone else I know can touch something like this. Call me odd, but I'm looking forward to the day that I can welcome my wasband's new love into our circle. I know that I wasn't enough to fill his well but I'd love to see him happy.

Maybe it's just part of being happy yourself... you wish the same for others, especially those with whom you've been close.

well, I'm done with the deep thoughts for now....I just want to sit back and have a beer while the chicken cooks...

love ya all,
kitt
xxx