kittenmmm's blog post - Reflections on calls

I was messaging someone regarding my new job. They were concerned that I not allow myself to be degraded and I don't. I did start talking a little about the educational experience taking calls has been. The education is not all about the fetishes that are out there rather, I see a piece of someone's mind. The education is one of the nature of humans.

One thing seems to stand out to me and that is that there are so many mismatched people out there. There are so many couples who, while they still love each other, shouldn't be together. Their perfect mates are still out there waiting. There seems to be a whole part of themselves that they can't share for whatever reasons. In some cases it might be a fetish that the other partner doesn't care for or understand or even know about. In other cases it's just not a perfect love, the one "you cannot live without".

For whatever reason these people were attracted to one another and did end up together but the person who fulfills them, completes them hasn't been found yet. The question is, how do you know when someone is the right one? I think once you find them you know because you've never experienced anything else like it. The right person is like the other half of you, when you're not with them you feel like you're missing a vital part of yourself. But, until that day comes, there are no touchstones and you go with what you know.

I think instinctively you would know something is missing but it's human nature to think we can control things. So often one looks at the other and wonders what can be changed. Yet, in true love, no changes are needed. The person is accepted unconditionally as they are.

And I've begun to ramble so I know it's time to sit back, have a cigarette and ruminate some more while I wait for my next call to show me yet another slice of human nature.

Enjoy your day people May true love and happiness shine on you today and all your tomorrows.