gozap's blog post - Fantasy: What do men really appreciate in a photo

After my recent postings I've begun to think really deeply about what men want to see in a female picture.

Most of the people who have posted comments seem to appreciate the erotic and sexy poses as opposed too the purely explicit ones. Maybe it is the intimacy of "what is to come" that is a real turn on as opposed to having everything "on a plate" so to speak.

As for myself, yes I prefer eroticism every time and much prefer to see the female form scantily clad with just a hint of mysticism and intrigue as it is so much more memorable and exciting. I suppose it is the old adage of the stripper who although finishing her act completely naked, actually grabs the attention of the audience with the removal of her clothes in the most sensual way.

So, when you out there view pictures, do you see yourself in a fantasy involving the subject, or do you simply delight in the beauty and sensual content of the picture? I'd be interested to know.

Don't get me wrong, I simply love to se a picture of a beautiful pussy, but somehow in isolation it doesn't have the same mental effect even though the physical effect remains. <lol>

That brings me to anothre point. I guess there are lots of posters like myself who have to obscure faces on the pictures for what should be obvious reasons. This really does take away a lot of the eroticism as a facial expression in a normal pose can be extremely sexy, adding more than words can tell to the overall effect of the picture. Take for instance Dirty_Sweet, her postings are all that more sexy because of the fact that you can see that beautiful smile QED. So, does the face/smile have maybe more sexual stimulus than the physical body itself...interesting.

Finally, Maybe it's old age and maturity, but the female form of an older woman with curves I find infinitely more attractive than the stick thin "size 0" models that the media tout as being the ideal woman. Many times I conjure up images of my wife with that sultry look that she has and end up with a permanent stiffy all day long, which isn't bad after being marrid for a long time, believe me.

Personally, I never did like women of my own age group when I was young, always prefering the curves of a mature woman and a gentle sultry smile and that hasn't chenged as I get have aged. As I jokingly said to my wife the other evening, I want something to move around when I'm making love, if only to let me know that I'm having an effect...you can guess the dirty look I got after that comment!

So you out ther, let us know what you like to see in a picture, I'd certainly be interested to find out.