gozap's blog post - Rant of the day - Disrespectfulness

Over the past few weeks I have posted pictures of my wife for two reasons.

1. To try and convince her that she is truly beautiful and that others also think this.

2. To show the world that you don't have to be a "perfect Size 0" to be attractive to people as many men simply adore the curves of a mature attractive woman.

However, recently I have bee innundated with what I con only describe as "gutter level filth" in the comments that people leave. Why, I ask do people find the need to put comments in which effectively disrespect the very women we are viewing? I'm confused, and in a spate of PM's between chas5 and myself we came to the conclusion that many in society in general have simply stopped regarding women as people with feelings and oppinions and resorted to the basest animal instincts which quite frankly I always believe separated us from the apes.

A woman isn't simply there to as they say "F**k" whenever is convenient without regard to her feelings and and needs, she is an object to treasure and love and make love to - a word that doesn't seem to appear in the spellcheckers of many posters. If this sociery continues to progress in this selfish and self centred direction then I'm glad that I probably won't be here to sample the results in 20-30 years.

I was brought up in a time when you opened doors for ladies, gave up your seat for them on the bus, treated them with respect and dignity and most of all treasured their feelings. Beauty is an inner quality that never dies. Exterior beauty may well fade with time but the inner beauty of a woman simply grows and blooms forever.

I know my wife isn't perfect. OK she hcarries a bit too much weight and hates her overall shape but you know what.....to me she is a goddess and I wouldn't change her for the world. I am truly blessed and very much in love with her.

So come on you NN posters, give the people posting here a break and if you haven't got anything nice to say then ....move on. It isn't big or clever to hurt people's feelings and if there is a judgement day then I hope that retribution and justice will be served out to the apropriate people.

I love the fact that other people appreciate our posts and yes, it is a bit of a turn on for me, mainly because I am proud to be married to such a wonderful woman.

However as I stated to chas5, I am seriously considering not bothering if this abuse continues..,we both don't need it.

Meanwhile, I hopefully will be treated this evening because I bought her a beautiful satin basque earlier this year that needs christening and I can't waitto see her in it. No doubt I'll want to share the image with the "gentlemen posters" amongst you, but we'll wait and see.

Well that is the end of the rant for what it is worth. Am I being over critical or are there others who share my view? I hope the latter is true and that "gentlemen" still exist out there in the big wide cyberworld.

You all keep Safe now.