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depotguy's blog post - Taken Yesterday and fitting my fathers day mood

Sunday, June 18, 2006, 3:48:36 PM

As anyone who has read my blog knows, I have a convoluted relationship with my father. We are "chained together" by biology but pulled apart by societies dictates. Even though the violence and hatred is mostly in our past....it lingers......through every conversation and visit. All I can do is love him and hope that we will one day be together in a place where we laugh more and worry less.

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18-Jun-06 15:54:22
I see things like this and I ache for you, partially because even with all the horrible things you've gone through, you have some bond to your father. I don't. We live about 45 min apart, and yet we couldn't be further away. When I was younger, he kept his distance; now, it's me who does the distancing. But I will say you have the leg up... you at least have interaction and a hope for something better; I think I've given up.

In any event, depot... I love you and I know you will be well one day. xxx
18-Jun-06 17:13:04
love makes us free.....acceptance and tolerance starts with those that dont accept us how we are.

Nothing will make your dad change unless he wants to....but forgiving includes forgeting..its a process for some a long process but I know you'll get there. *big hugs*
Raj
18-Jun-06 21:23:54
Here's to hope!