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depotguy's blog post - A Gift

Sunday, February 3, 2008, 3:25:22 AM
Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves. When I forgive someone I am freeing myself from the power their actions had over my life.

Way too often we look at this from the opposite perspective and we think we are letting someone get away with something. They will have to take that up with a power far greater than our hatred.

I am glad I have learned this lesson in time to enjoy it.


Next lesson?

Comments

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locksley
3-Feb-08 3:54:01
next lesson? you're the one under me...so you tell me, sensei!
big-nickel-guy
3-Feb-08 4:00:05
sorry depot this is the first and I hope only time I dissagree with you some things can not be forgiven
3-Feb-08 5:10:41
I can try, I often fail, and as to nickel's thoughts, it might surprise you that I agree with him.
3-Feb-08 5:45:46
Some things cannot be forgiven...i agree. I can move on, but I can't forgive somethings.
3-Feb-08 8:08:09
i can forgive most.. but i will never forget anything..
3-Feb-08 13:44:02
forgiveness doesnt always set you free
she bop
3-Feb-08 14:14:05
I'm horrible about holding a grudge....and you are exactly right about forgiveness being a gift to oneself. Lesson leanred. :)
~wench~
4-Feb-08 4:11:35
exactly wot bop said!
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxx