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OldTroubador's blog post - Memorial Day - repost

Friday, May 10, 2013, 10:36:12 PM
“And they will march straight through St. Peter’s gate, for they’ve served their time in Hell.”
Well, by the time you read this, it will be the month of May. This means many things to many people. To me, it means that at the end of the month, here in the United States, we celebrate Memorial Day. Memorial Day is set aside as a day to remember our armed forces personnel who fell during the course of battle. I can remember, as a child, being at my grandmother’s house in Pennsylvania over this weekend. We would spend Saturday and Sunday working at our cottage, getting it ready for summer – turning on the water, uncovering the furniture, things like that. But Monday, Memorial Day, was set aside for the parade to the local cemetery and the service to be held there. During the parade, all the children were allowed to march at the end of the procession as it wound up the hill to the cemetery. Once there, everyone gathered as invocations were given and a memorial wreath placed on one of the veterans’ graves. A squad from the local National Guard armory was on hand to render honors and ‘Taps’ was then played. Everyone stood silently, hats off and hands over hearts, until the last notes echoing down the valley faded into memory. At that point, the squad marched off to a drum tattoo and the children all raced to collect the brass from the honors given. The adults went to the family plots to make sure that flags and flowers were placed on the gravesites of their fallen family members. Then it was time for family and friends to gather for picnics and cookouts – the first official ones of the summer.
I mention this because it seems like many people have forgotten the true meaning of Memorial Day. It is unofficially, the first official weekend of the summer, this much is true. But it seems to me that most people are more interested in heading off to the lakes, mountains, or beaches than they are in remembering the reason for the weekend. Stores run week long sales on either end, trying to make as much money as possible from people with an extra day to shop. But they remember not why they have this extra day.
But during this time of honoring the fallen, let us not forget the living. Many on this site are veterans and many of these have lost close friends during times of conflict. Many others are now on active duty. Some have family members overseas and others will watch as their loved ones leave for training camps. It is important to remember that these men and women have bought and will continue to buy our freedom with their sacrifice of time away from loved ones. Our freedoms are underwritten with the blood spilled by those who have answered the call. Our rights are buttressed by the rows of white crosses at cemeteries around the world.
I would like to send a personal Thank You to all the servicemen and women, past and present, who read this. Thank you for your service, for your sacrifice, for the hardships you endured. And if I may, without offending too many people, I would like to offer a small prayer to all of you who have served:
May the Good Lord bless you and keep you. May He be gracious and smile upon you. May He lift up His countenance upon you, and give you peace. Amen.

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ccmcro
10-May-13 22:48:44
And may everyone remember the fallen. My prayers be there with you's for your Memorial day. I was lucky to be working in Holland during there recent "Dodenherdenking" which translates to "Remembrance of the Dead" was nice o see how another country celebrated there's. In the UK we have "Remembrance Sunday" which is held on the closet Sunday to "the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month" which people wear poppies to show there remembrance and references to the below.

Flanders is the name of the whole western part of Belgium. It saw some of the most concentrated and bloodiest fighting of the First World War. There was complete devastation. Buildings, roads, trees and natural life simply disappeared. Where once there were homes and farms there was now a sea of mud - a grave for the dead where men still lived and fought.
Only one other living thing survived. The poppy flowering each year with the coming of the warm weather, brought life, hope, colour and reassurance to those still fighting.

Prayers and thoughts for the fallen and there families, Cecila.
10-May-13 22:52:14
Amen brother. I remember back in school when I played trumpet (yes I was in band) and I got chosen to play Taps at the Memorial Day Service.

We had a band director that really understood the meaning of "service" and he led me down over a hill far away from the ceremony. I couldn't even see the proceedings, but he told me to play just liked I'd practiced after I heard the last volley.

Afterwards I had teary eyed veterans tell me it was the most beautiful rendition of Taps they'd ever heard and wanted to know how I'd chosen a spot to play that would allow the notes to echo back from the surrounding hills and trees.

I hadn't, the band director had. He'd brought his son out and had him listen as he tried from different spots until he got just the perfect effect. He wanted everything to be perfect for our veterans that day, both those who'd gone on and the living.

I played Taps in that same spot three more years until I graduated, and every service I've attended there since, the bugler stands in the same spot.

One man's sacrifice to show his appreciation to those who'd served has touched countless lives since.

Isn't that what "service" is all about?

God Bless each and every one who has honorably served this nation, and any nation who's stood for justice and freedom.
cuffsandfeathers
10-May-13 22:59:23
Great blog, OT. We've recently had ANZAC day and its certainly an emotional time. The fact that these people put their country first and ensure the well being of those who cannot defend themselves is honourable and admirable. And for those who give up their lives doing it deserve the utmost respect and reverence. Lest we Forget