Chesty McBoob's blog post - Arthur or Martha...

These days I am just not sure what is happening to my sexuality. All my life I have seen myself very clearly as bi-sexual. I've had pretty balanced sexual experiences with males and females but my main, longer term relationships have always tended to be with men.

I am lucky that Mr McB is an open minded perv (self confessed) who has no problem with my sexuality and loves to hear about or see (if he is lucky) my sexual lady fun! Some male partners have been less understanding in the past.

I don't know why, but these days I am having no urge to be with a woman sexually. Though I still worship the female body as a beautiful, erotic and generally sexually inspiring thing, my practical needs of being with a woman just aren't there.

To me that was always the difference between being "bi-curious" and actually being "bi-sexual". I have had some lovely offers from some really nice and really sexy females but I just don't want to... I can't believe I am 38 and questioning my sexuality!

Anyway off to do some work now!