Alpina's blog post - Like a Good, Tasty Meal

That must have been a wild life then (in the house I mentioned in the last few blogs), someone wrote in his PM (thanks for it all the same, sweety). Actually, it wasn't much. For us having sex was very much like sharing a good, tasty meal. How wild are your meals with good friends? Do you put on gaudy tasteless clothes which do not become you? Do you you eat with your fingers and smear everything over the table and your guests? For us, sex was a very simple thing, and there was no connection whatsoever to anything pornography sells you as real.

My attitude was that I could share a little tasty snack with almost anybody without planning to share the rest of my life with him (or her). Few guys actually understand this because for many having sex equals some kind of ownership. Never for my friends, I am happy to say.

A crucial aspect is what attitude you have towards nudity. For me it was always the absence of clothes; I was educated that way. I was reminded of this while moving house lately and looking at some photographs form my childhood. We were are in the garden and around the pool on a summer's day, and everyone was stark naked. And I wondered how many of the people I know have nude pics of their parents and think that this the most natural thing in the world.