Did she say she wants to or was just a dream? is it a girl or a guy? If its a guy maybe you can do MMF that could be fun.

If it was a dream, dnt get mad.
You cant control your dreams... its just a fucked up world the other side of the mind in dreamland..lol Beleive me if my dreams became true i wud of slept with everyone and killed alot of people.

"i still don't know if i should let her."

There is this old feminist from the sixties down inside me that wants to know: Where did you get the divine authority to give her permission to have sex?

It is her sex life. It is her body. Is she your wife? Have you both agreed on a committed, exclusive sexual relationship? If not, who the fuck do you think you are? her owner?

If she is your committed wife-like partner, what committment did you make that she needs permission to break? This does not sound very healthy so far. Maybe you both should discuss the nature of the relationship. Open? ok, fine. Not open? ok, fine. But you two need to decide, not people on this site.

A dream does not necessarily mean she's giving herself permission to fulfill it, so why would she need your permission, which you have not even indicated whether or not she asked for?

Why do you need to "do" anything?

I don't understand the question.

I like theoldfart's answer.

Okay, problem solved, she's already done it. Came out and told me tonight. She said she "was going to see a movie" with her friend(female)lastnight but instead...yeah. Oh well, she's happy, i'm not. We'll get over it. Btw, we're engaged so don't go jumping my ass over stuff.

Instead of getting miffed , you should have licked her pussy!

she had sex with a girl... get in on that!

Yeah, if it was with her gf then fantastic!!!

Engaged does not equal 'owned'.

In my opinion if your g/f is happy you should be happy that she is happy!!

You should encourage her to "sow her wild oats" now before you marry.

It would be good if a few guys fucked her so she would have some comparison.

Just tell her to be careful she doesn't give you "something"

Well I don't think it's claiming ownership to want your girlfriend to be faithful. Maybe I'm old fashioned in my opinion's but I don't have sex with other woman because it's disrespectful to my girlfriend and I expect the same respect in return, if she doesn't agree then we're obviously not a good enough match.

The O.F. had a good point: Don't ASSUME. in any relationship people need to talk about what they want/need.
Of course, if the relationship was an agreed upon monogamy, and she said "well, we didn't actually go to a movie..."
You could head out & when she asks where you're going, say: "I'm going to see a movie."

wait wait wait..wasnt this thread already posted? what happend was it cleaned up by the mods? I know I posted in this thread. So where did it go?
If not this is a duplicate. and he already got his responses???

If your girl fucked another guy. its your call. if its another girl still your call.

go for it, it's better to find out now on how it might effect your relationship than later.

hey razor, well regardless of the 'ownership' debate raging here, i think that's pretty shit of your fiancee to just go ahead and fuck her mate, when clearly you hadn't said you were cool with it. I hope it's xxxxxx an issue for you two to discuss what fidelity means to you (and as you can see in the forum, it means different things to different people).

I'm not married but there's no way I'd go fuck a mate because I know my girlfriend's totally not OK with that. At times I wish she was but that's a different issue!!

WHO IS RESURRECTING THESE OLD THREADS???? They comment to resurrect the thread but then the comment is always deleted. Who is it and what are they saying that gets deleted??? I must know!!!!

Spammers. They seem to be invading the boards. Fortunately our sexy friends are quickly reporting them and getting them blocked. Fortunately the mods are on top of it and quickly removing them.