That is something that we don't do. Now the things that we both enjoy is teasing and touching each other all the time. Many times you just can't jump in bed or the couch. The touching and teasing keeps, 1) her pussy moist and her clit throbbing in anticipation. 2) keeps me ready when she is.
The other thing we do a lot is flashing nipples, cock, bums and pussy. Builds up the event. Almost always as I go down on her after teasing each other all day, she cums so hard and wet. My first orgasm comes pretty quickly as well, but I can be so excited, I don't lose my erection and am able to keep fucking until she cums on my cock. Try not to withhold anything if you can. Try the teasing and touch as much as you two can. Good luck, G and L

Your profile says you’re 61. I almost assumed you were VERY young. It could just be getting old and she doesn’t want to do those things anymore. Or can’t. Sucks getting old! Meanwhile no woman in the history of the human race was EVER swayed by a man withholding sex. It’s not even a concept! 😂😂😂😂.