I first discovered the lifestyle when a couple I knew let me into their world. He and I were working overseas and he brought his wife along. He had to work most weekends. One day he asked if I'd be interested in taking his wife out one night... She was bored as hell and dying to do a bit of partying. I thought it was cool that he trusted me, and besides, she was a lot of fun to hang out with. I just had no idea how much fun until later. After that we started hanging out together more. They started inviting me over to their place. At first we didn't do much. But after awhile, I learned they wanted me to be a bit more outgoing. I always followed his lead, though, they had invited me in and I didn't want to lose my chance to be part of it. I learned and respected what was off limits to me. The things she was willing to share with me were so fucking awesome the off limit stuff didn't matter to me anyway. Eventually it was time to pack up and move on. We lost touch. Since then I've wanted to feel the same rush when a stranger or near stranger lets me into that part of their life. That's what brought me here. (If I try contacting you and don't hear back, don't worry, I can take a hint. I won't bother you again. If your profile says no single guys, I get it. I won't try contacting you.)

• 48 years old
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