I am wondering how many people I used to chat with, are still around..

With status as slow as it is now.. I wonder if it can get back to what it was, when it was hopping..

I look forward to finding you all again.. Thanks for the warm welcome so far!

Hugs!!!

This button seems to be one of my most used tabs.. sucks when you see who has chosen to delete you.. some hurt your feelings.. and some you think.. I was friends with you?? I am sure that it means nothing.. but dang those hurt feelings.. it is a porn site after all.. :/

Sending hugs to one and all of you!

Goodbye friends that have gone away, I wish you well!

W

I hope you all have been doing well!

I have been having some fibromyalgia and socialization issues lately.. My communication skills are taking a hit the most and I am having a hard time being with others.. I am having a hard time with simple things, like this blog.. ha..

I cant come up with what to say.. and my mojo is still working its way back.. I took a set of pics a couple of weeks ago.. edited a few.. and left the rest.. I keep coming up with ideas.. but not like before.. and creating the captions for the pics.. used to be so easy for me.. now.. it is a struggle to come up with one that does the pic some justice.. I am working on some of those past blog challenges.. I have always loved those!!

I just wanted to share so you all know why I have not come around much..

I am sending out about a million massive hugs to all who want and need em...

HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wendy had a quiet summer.. lots of time with her almost teenage son.. And lots of medical visits.. Wendy is now able to say she has been officially diagnosed with Fibromyalgia.. She is also suffering from a few other ailments.. The medical professionals believe I am severely handicapped..

The main change in me is my communication with others.. I have been a hermit more and more lately.. I am unable to handle excitement in any form.. and nope not talking sexually.. haha.. I am talking about anything in your everyday life.. If I liked Christmas.. and would get excited for the day.. I would be ill for a while over that.. If any chaos happens around me.. I am ill for a few days.. and it does not even need to be my chaos.. Makes it hard to be a friend.. or at least the type of friend I used to be.. The friend I know how to be.. The one who helps you with your relationship issues.. and not just spouse.. I was great at showing people both sides of what others might be thinking.. Now.. I cant handle almost everything.. This disease seems to be taking a toll on me.. I am told it wont get worse.. but I am finding that hard to believe now.. it seems like I might be still finding the bottom of it.. Anyway.. My communication seems to be the most affected.. I tend to see words that are not actually written.. and I also lose words that are.. Sometimes entire sentences..

I am still not dating.. and oh my goodness.. it has been the change I have needed!! I LOVE that I am not looking after a man anymore.. Everyone around me, including my Dr.. thinks I should want to date again in the future.. oh my.. I sure hope not.. I was too good of a girlfriend.. and now.. I cant imagine doing those things again for a man.. And I have never been a fan of tacos over sausage.. so there wont be any seeing if the other team wants a pinch hitter.. (insert winking yellow dude(emoji) here)

I still want to write my book... and I work on it when I can.. it is hard to go back into the times of your life.. when heartache was raw.. and rampant.. Especially with the new progression of my Mr Fibro. Yay goals!

I hope you all have had a great summer!! I cant wait to catch up with you all ... and on all the Blog photo challenges I have missed!!

Sending you some Alberta Hugs!!

HUGS!

out to you all..

Hope your day and week is amazingtastic!

Good morning.. time to shed some light on a fellow NNer.. just cause this one.. should NOT still be getting away with this.. they are NOT even supporting the site!!!

I got nasty comments on a few of my pics so this is what I sent to them...

Wendy: when you hate what you see.. I am not sure where your golden rule went.. but I dont see it anywhere..

please.. dont look next time.. ok.. this site is not just for what YOU like.. please.. filter your ownself.. or move along..

thank you for your time!

Junior71: We try to move on but when there are more then one pic posted, and there aren't any filter to block things that really shouldn't have more then one pic, then it's hard to move on! We have even closed that page and went to the next, witch is sad because there are a lot of great pic that should be seen on here but when there are people who post more then one and shouldn't by any means, then what? And I have chatted with A LOT of people and they have said the same!

Wendy: stop looking at the main page then.. it is unfair for you to think more than one pic to post is wrong.. If you stay in the skinny chicks area.. you will be fine.. no need to see the other stuff that way.. if you keep looking on the main page.. you will be disgusted every time.. maybe that will help..
but please.. stop being a dick.. stop posting comments on other profiles or pics.. if you are truly unhappy here.. LEAVE.. stop making it harder on the ladies here.. you dont give a shit about us.. so stop making it seem like you do.. bad attention.. is still attention!!!

Junior71: Well again if they had filter we would stay away, but since they don't there isn't much to do! And it's not just my husband thank you! We are REAL people we post pics and comments. If they are hot then we say if not...well! Maybe if you don't like what you see on a comment then you shouldnt post! I have had a few negative comments but I also know that they may come in if you are on a public site with not that may filters! We all have asked for more! There is a reason why some people only get like 50-100 views and they are always from the same people and then there are others that get 500+ in a day or 2! But the problem is when we look past 1,2 or even 3 post from someone who post pic and there are like 5-7-10 more! And they REALLY shouldn't post that many! We nor anyone else cant un see that!

So.. does this sound like a great addition to the NN family???? They are stating who should be allowed to post pics!!! LOL.. so.. how does Wendy handle this.. well.. her lower rage button was a touch activated.. I made sure I commented on each pic... the comment I get from them! Oh no no no no!!!

Was it mean.. maybe.. but if this man and woman team can do this to countless others.. they why the banana is it wrong when a touch angry Wendy does it too!!!

Junior.. I get votes.. I get comments.. I get followers.. and you get? mean comments because you two are rather rude and cruel.. just because there are ALL kinds in this world does NOT mean that you get to choose which ones are worthy..

FROM NOW ON.. REMEMBER WHAT EVERY GREAT MOTHER HAS SAID BEFORE.. IF YOU CANT SAY ANYTHING NICE.. DO NOT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL!!

Are we clear now sweet stuff??? or do I need to go a bit further here?????????????

Sorry for the rant people.. but this member seems to like to push my buttons..

funny how he did not comment on the pic that was dedicated just for him... haha Jr says no.. Wendy says YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I dedicate all my massive belly pics to you mr 71..

Rant over for now.. lol

small update.. lol.. they just unleashed a few pics.. and hmmm... not as many views as they think they get eh.. I almost match right up next to them for views.. lol.. and I am not a skinny chick.. no one would ever want to see more than ONE pic of this gal.. lol.. Fack.. I should be thanking you.. sending you a thank you note each and every day.. you make me giggle now!