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Wed, 3-Apr-19 5:58 PM (5 years ago)
Serious question...do people think there is a clique in status??
100% there is!! or so it seems when you are not super active here.. I see at time regular members as well as new ones, ignored.. Trick is... just talk! Just push your sexy selves into the conversation
(5 years ago)
I didn't get much activity until I started joining in on the banter. Now I think people actually read my posts
(5 years ago)
I fully agree Miss Ashlee.. when I was here last time.. I was way too scared to really say much.. and when I was ignored.. I was hurt feelings Wendy..
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MissAshlee likes this
Probably so....but honestly, there is some of us that could give 2 fucks less...
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steelrat60 likes this
I just make smartass comments on any status that takes my fancy
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The pink shields get a massive razzing.. that is also true..
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MissAshlee likes this
I don't know but mostly when there is group of people there is a clique because some have the same interests or some think they are better then others. But who cares. Just be yourself and have fun
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And since when has status made sense? 
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Very much so, and when certain ones come on everyone else gets ignored. You will notice it gets very quiet.
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That happens to us all though lil sometimes...I wouldn't always take it as personal, maybe sometimes it is but not with everyone
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I sometimes post what I think is a kick ass status and it gets fuck all response...Am I even in this clique?? I'm dieing to know 
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nothing and everything is personal on status.. ha... everyone is also not for everyone. There are many times I come to status when it is hopping.. I start my silliness.. and then.. it gets all quiet
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MissAshlee likes this
WhereEVER you have groups of people socializing, you will have "cliques". It's just human nature.
(5 years ago)
Hey steel... welcome to the convo...maybe I just have a different idea ofmwhat a clique is
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steelrat60 likes this
Well I suppose we can all say we've felt a bit left out sometimes in here...things seem to slow when we arrive...but do we remember the times when we are the ones to make it bounce?
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well.. Im out for that.. If anything I include everyone I can in some silly way or another.
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Fuck me I'll talk to anyone!!... and fuck most 
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I like to think I can find common ground with just about anyone.
(5 years ago)
& 
ratman! 
A clique?maybe, or is just some of us just are happy to banter away? I ignore most sexual comment statuses, I join in with fun, interesting statuses, I have a set of friends here I interact with/
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Some folk join, and expect to be entertained, say little and then moan when they are ignored, to fit in...JOIN in
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I don't fit in with many people in life so I don't expect it to happen here. A handful of members I love dearly, most have left. I don't trust most people to know the real me, most couldn't handle it
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Maybe somewhat but not in the traditional sense. My way of thinking is a true clique is a closed group. Anybody can make themselves welcome and part of the group here. Having said that, I realize not
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WendySilvia likes this
I genuinely really get some people here, some not so much, Quiet, you are the former, not the latter, we will never meet, but, hell man I do admire you
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some personalities at times can be strong and scary.. I am sure that can be hard to navigate at times too
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everyone gets along with everyone. That is human nature. But there are times when someone is suspect for one reason or another and many people pile on. In that sense, it is very much cliquish.
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Wendy, I admire that comment, I fall into that category, i'm an asshat, I say stuff some people don't like, don't get, so be it on a web site
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WendySilvia likes this
Lenny..I assume you meant not everyone gets along with everyone?
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lennynatural likes this
I like who I like here, I get on with who I do, if that means i am in a clique of friends? so be it
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Just joined up your two comments into one Lenny, apologies for not having the patience to read the second: )
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lennynatural likes this
I used to be on a cigar site that was truly cliquish, with few exceptions a true bunch of assholes. I know what an online clique looks like. We don't come close to it.
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Ive been on edge with many for misunderstandings, and i have friends that dont get along, would say im not in any clique (if i am just tell me whos in it)
(5 years ago)
Are Bauza cigars still around lenny? Those were one of my (legal) favorites many years and illnesses ago.
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lennynatural likes this
Simply put. I get on with who I do here, I stick to those people in status, any newbies are welcome to join that group, just JOIN in, simples; )
(5 years ago)
lennynatural likes this
TC said "PS, great status. Plummy: )" What do you expect the Leader of the Clique to say?
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Great status post tho plum. I don’t. Chat a lot but do sit and watch and chuckle, sometimes hard for people to feel it’s ok to jump into the convo. But yes it’s human nature to for social groups .
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I expect to lead from the front...duh! : P
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One last tiny thought, none of us will be meeting next to the water cooler tomorrow, we don't all have to get on, to meet a few like minded souls here is gold.
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Fudge no clique wanted me this time either....
(5 years ago)
Well this status went well 
It's been interesting reading through it
It's been interesting reading through it
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