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Tue, 17-Oct-17 9:31 PM (6 years ago)
Ladies of NN: as per TC's status, if you are receiving peristant unwelcome messages and not getting the help you want from NN or the mods, then send me a p.m. & I'll have a word with the offender.
We've already lost too many ladies from here already due to being hassled.
(6 years ago)
Maybe, just kind of pissed off that some men ruin it all for the rest of us and we are tarred with the same brush..IE. All men are pigs...we are not.
(6 years ago)
jo1st50plus likes this
Exactly,so the threat of a subtle bit of naming and shaming on status from several of us might just curb their words a bit and make it a safer place for the ladies? Just a thought 
(6 years ago)
jo1st50plus likes this
Hey, can I just say that I have found a lot of respectful men on here, too? ) Ones who know words like "please", and "sorry" when I call them out. My block list isn't even full 
(6 years ago)
Oh of course tickle, but anyway,my offer is there for those whose experiences are maybe not as enjoyable as yours and perhaps feel a little intimidated and alone on here.
(6 years ago)
tickle_me_elmo likes this
Ok, ladies, listen - on a site like this, the best and most effective tactic you can use is to not engage with those type of men at all. They are nothing and no one to you. They have zero relevance
(6 years ago)
miss_molly likes this
I understand that words can be hurtful, especially when we take them personally - but here’s the thing - DONT. They don’t KNOW you personally, so in truth .. it can’t be personal.
(6 years ago)
miss_molly likes this
Ignore. Delete. Never engage with them in any way - not even when they call you a stupid slut for ignoring them. You are the one in power- so keep your power, don’t let them throw you off.
(6 years ago)
This is a website. Share only as much as you are comfortable sharing - and that applies to personal information you share with other members you might “consider” your “friends” here.
(6 years ago)
You don’t need the site to protect you (because it never really can) and you don’t need other members protecting you (because they never really can either)
(6 years ago)
So be smart. Be in control. Only share and show what makes you feel good. Focus on the positive. Ignore the negative. And you will do just fine.
(6 years ago)
I delete pms straight away and found if you don’t respond they disappear
(6 years ago)
Agreed, LR, but the facts remain that there are many women being hassled and many have left because of it. So a few of us are here if needed, that's all,the offer is there.
(6 years ago)