sam8688 said:
We are 70 and in the swing lifestyle with friends in their 60's to 80's, and we all have as good sex now as we have always had. That being said, tits are a little more saggy, dicks are not as big as they used to be, all a little over weight, a few more wrinkles, BUT the enjoyment is still there. The women are ,some squatters, some multi orgasmic, some big tits, some small tits, some nipples sensitive, but all orgasm. The men, again are over weight, and their dick as not as big as was, or get as hard, (but with with a little help with modern medicine all get hard) Most of the men still cum, some more than others, but the enjoyment is still there.
I say all of this because sex when we are young it was different than now. When you are young you want to be a stud and fuck long and hard. Women want to be the sex machine. (and there is not a thing wrong with that, we were the same) Which is all good, but when you get older you are way more relaxed and enjoy the act and the partner you are with way more deeply. We really feel bad when we see and know couples in their 40' and 50's that for some reason or another, (medical or lost interest) are not having sex. We still do love the whole process, kissing (which is another lost art, we love to kiss long and deep), hugging, and foreplay. I don't know if it "this might me the last sex we have, as I might check out tonight", or what the thought process is, but most of all us old folks still love sex. Take heart young ones, it only gets better. We still have sex at least 3 times a week, and when you add in the 3 somes, and 4 somes we have, we are still pretty active. I am fortunate that I am married to a wonderful woman that loves sex. Like I said "it only gets better"
Married 47 years. Wish I had an active partner still! She hit menopause & just quit!!!