Artistic said: WifeApril said: Hi all and thanks for reading my post.I have been wanting to share my wife with another guy for a few years now.I would love to watch the intimacy as he slowly undresses her then seduces her.
However she has always said no to this.She does have some desires to the thought but is quite closed book not telling me exactly how she feels.I think she is more worried about someone finding out and calling her horrible names. i was wondering if anyone can give any advice on encouraging her into giving in and making my fantasy become reality.
if she loves you and is your wife she might be pushed into joining in
i dont get this selfishness there are a lot of in the "sharing thing"
"YOUR FANTASY become reality"
cos she already told you its not hers
we do a lot for the ones we love, but are the things always best for relationship??
Exactly!!! I'm just going to add this. It may or may not pertain to your situation. Even though it DID eventually happen with my wife and I with a few other men, my wife and I talked the next day after the 1st time and the one thing that was stopping her was that she was afraid of "enjoying" herself too much and didn't want to damage my ego. LOL...........She still, to this day hasn't admitted that it was a fantasy of hers to be with two men at once. Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't. Either way, we all had fun, nobody got jealous, and our marriage is still as solid as it ever was. We still enjoy a healthy sex life with each other. She has told me that she fantasizes about me and her with another woman. Someday, that might happen. I have watched her and another woman in a 69 before and I so wanted to join in but it was made clear by the other woman (who was a lesbian friend) that she was not into that so I just enjoyed the show they put on for me. In the end, I think you need to take into consideration how solid your relationship is with each other and how important YOUR needs are vs HERS.......Mutual agreement on everything from sexual likes, dislikes, fantasies, what you are having for supper, how much money to spend on cars etc, etc, etc is important aspects of keeping a marriage strong in my opinion. Treat each other with equal respect and enjoy life.......even if YOU don't always get what YOU want.