With the Ex it is good, she tastes so sweet and loves me going down on her and sucking on her nipples and she is vocal about her enjoyment. It is, however a bit one sided, as she will not give me a BJ, they have been rare throughout our relationship.
With The Wife, it is much more a give and take, she gives amazing head both before and after we have fucked, she does get a bit vocal *sometimes*. I go down on her and eat both her pussy and ass (a bit) but her taste is no where near as sweet and she does not show enjoyment - at least not that often.
So with the wife it is more of a 'two way street' enjoyable in some ways, but not others. With The Ex, it is certainly more one sided. Enjoyable, but in a different way.
Not like I am going back to The Ex anytime, but just needed to put these thoughts down and curious what others think.
Reality is that I am not that attracted to The Ex anymore, but I do like sex with her - have not fucked for about 8 months or more and sort of hoping we will tonight but I am a bit conflicted about it overall.