This is the closing line in my response to another post I responded to here in the forum. After reading it, it got me to thinking that is exactly it in my relationship. I have spent an entire lifetime tailoring my sexual being to the tastes and desires of another...My Wife. It got me wondering how many others feel the same way?
My wife and I both have varied pasts however once together I made a conscious decision to become teacher, and leader to my wife's sexual conditioning. She came from a religious background and was not as comfortable as I. Over a lifetime I have listened to her, held her, made her feel attractive, helped her find confidence all with the desired design that in return I would have a model wife, and the comfortable tailored whore I always fantasized of. This is not a Master\Servant scene. We are equal and both committed to making life together the best it can be while it can be.
It has not all been paradise. In fact it has been often discouraging, felt like it was taking a lifetime, and at time infinitely frustrating however I can honestly say it has finally arrived. I have a beautiful, confident partner, that loves getting off with me.
So how about you, who puts the work in and how is it going. In a healthy sexual relationship it takes two to Tango. How's your investment paying off?