Before we were married my wife and I both had brief sexual relationships with one other person - she with a man and me with a woman - back when we were in college. Thankfully, I have long felt, her boyfriend dumped her and my girlfriend dumped me. We both felt used but are glad that we did not continue in relationships with them. Given their promiscuity we'd probably have had AIDS by now or some other incurable sexually transmitted disease or diseases. After getting dumped by my girlfriend I did go, three times, to some,er, uh, "massage parlors" where the women doing the massage did a handjob on me but there was no other sex. Over the years since then, since my wife does not have a sex drive as high as mine I have secretly looked at porn and occasionally secretly masturbated but have not had a relationship with anyone else. My wife has said that she does not look at pornography (she probably suspects that I do) and that she has never had sex with anyone else. By the way, given your NN online name I assume that either you or your wife may be a nurse (nice picture if that is her ;>
. One of the strangest experiences I have ever had was a couple of years ago. To make a long story short, I had to be a patient in a hospital. They put a catheter up my penis, into my bladder, and left it in there for a few days with the tube running to a urine collection bag. It was just a strange experience to be laying there or sitting there with this tube up my penis, wearing a hospital gown with nothing else on, and having all these female nurses and female nurses aids come in and check my urine line and empty and measure my urine output. This one very pretty nurse would come in and chat with me, occasionally, and would pick up and look at my urine collection bag and look at my urine. When I left, she gave me a warm hug and wished me well. I haven't seen her since then. I just remember that week from time to time.