I have a coworker who has shared with me that for 7 years she has been the Mistress of a man 21 years her senior and is okay with it because she knows he will never leave his wife/family and will take what he can give her/fuck her when she can get it. She is quite enamored with him and decided that 2nd place was better than no place at all.
Anyone else like that too?
Few year back a former coworker and I got very close. I was single at the time and she was married but was willing to see me/do me when she could-just would not end the marriage nor tell her husband about it in the hopes of having an open marriage. I went along as "2nd place" and then met someone else but I can see that viewpoint of it.
Others?