Viewing Member - gothicvamp

Central Iowa is my locale. Happy to visit or I can host - as long as you are not OCD about books and DVDs all over the place ;-) NEW INFO! - SINGLE!! Ex made comments about my Down's syndrome brother and that I will not tolerate! Everybody who meets him loves him but she was jealous that occasionally his needs had to come before hers as he is dependent on me. Too bad - so sad - for her!!! I enjoy one night stands but prefer a relationship or permanent FWB w / the right special lady. Do NOT care about looks or race (SERIOUSLY!!!), but would like someone with similar 'proclivities'. I really LOVE watching a woman's expression when she is cumming - It so turns me on! How we get to that point varies from session to session as I can be very creative ;-) examples: Do you love 69 (a favorite game is seeing who can get the other to cum first)? Anal (love leaning you over a dresser, fondling your nipples and French kissing you as we cum together - especially in front of a mirror)? Does a kiss feel incomplete if your man is not caressing, massaging or tending to your nipples? You are looking for me! Love seeing how far into you my tongue can get while fondling your nipples as you sit on my face! Do you have REALLY SENSITIVE nipples that you love to have attended to? You are looking for me! Are they continually perky and erect? Awesome - but really don't care as long as they are sensitive! If my licking or suckling your nipples gets you begging me to fuck but you don't mind SOME delayed gratification, we will get on between the sheets just great! It is a bonus if they happen to be so extra thick or long that other girls made fun of you in gym! My nipples are sensitive too, so looking for a woman who does not have a problem attending to mine in return ;-) I am confident but respectful (unless you do not want me to be LOL) and will push you to your limit without violating your boundaries. I am open to rope-play and other fantasies when mutually agreed upon and under these constraints. Are you shy? I am phenomenal at making the most shy lady feel comfortable and safe. Are you bold and love to 'display'? I will be in heaven! Very visual and if you want attention somewhere, no words are needed. Just smile, maybe wink, and 'show' me what needs special attention! What are YOU looking for? What is your favorite kink? What have you always wanted to try but never have? I am betting I can help you out with that! Single and probably forgetting things so may add more later. I am happy to share photos with you privately. My only rules are - No Smoking in my Car or in my House EVER. If it is 20 below you still have to go outside if you want a smoke! Sorry, the smell makes me physically ill. Other than that, I am VERY easygoing, accommodating and tolerant (especially if you are bi and have a girlfriend - LOL). I am protective but NOT possessive! If drama follows you wherever you go, do not contact me. My life is drama-free and I wish to maintain that! Finally, I am passionate about music and art and a little too smart (and sometimes to much of a smartass) for my own good. But I am NEVER intentionally cruel, I do not hurt people, I am still friends (only) with multiple exes (girlfriends-only the one ex-wife ;-) [who was a wonderful woman but hated sex - which I found out too late as I was a 'good boy' and remained a virgin until marriage. More fool me.] Wow - I wish NN knew what tabs and breaks between paragraphs meant! PLEASE contact me if ANY of this seems promising. NO woman could EVER meet ALL of my desires and THAT IS OKAY!!! While I may not be able to meet all of your desires either, I would LOVE to TRY! Surely we CAN meet each other's NEEDS! Short term CERTAINLY . . .